Vortex of Passion: The allure of emotional ups and downs.
In the emotional world, there is a miraculous phenomenon known as the "drawbridge effect" in the psychological community. Imagine a person walking alone on a rickety suspension bridge when suddenly a person of the opposite sex appears in front of you. At this moment, emotions seem to become extremely fluctuating, and we mistakenly believe that this mood swing is caused by a favorable feeling for the opposite sex in front of us. The drawbridge effect is often used to explain emotional fluctuations in intimate relationships. It is said that if you want to form a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it is best to choose a place that can cause the other person to have mood swings, such as a movie theater, a playground or outdoor activities. Because the ups and downs of emotions tend to deepen the emotional bond between each other.
The essence of love is the ups and downs of emotions, and we will be affected by the emotions of the other person. When we like someone, we experience this emotional instability. When we are happy, the other person is happier than we are; When we are sad, the other person also feels heavy; When the other person finds out that we are too close to other people of the opposite sex, they feel jealous and angry. Therefore, the other party's every move, word and deed will set off waves in our emotional world. If you find that the other person often shows emotional traits in the process of getting along with the other person, then it often means that the other person has a crush on you.
Social osmosis theory tells us that the deeper the topic of the conversation, the closer the relationship. Imagine a time with friends and you will talk about everything, sharing life, relationships, family and even little secrets. This in-depth exchange is based on trust, security, and familiarity. The same is true when it comes to getting along with the opposite sex. One of the indicators of whether the other person likes you is to see if they are willing to take the initiative to share their life with you. They will want you to be part of their lives, even if you are not together at the moment, but your response will make them feel connected to each other. Also, people who like you will be more willing to show you who they really are, and hopefully you will be able to learn more about them. Therefore, the more times a person is willing to chat with you, the more in-depth and frequent the topic of the chat, the more likely it is that they have a crush on you.
Romantic moments often stem from the emotional exchange between each other. Someone once said, "Someone stands at dusk with you, and someone asks you for porridge." In other words, romance is not just sweet words, but also reflects the attention and care for each other's emotions. The value of emotion lies in the fact that the other person can give us positive, positive, and positive emotions. They give us encouragement when we are down; They praise us when we feel inferior; When we are struggling inside, they use their emotional values to infect us and lead us out of the haze. The value of emotions is often based on mutual affection, support, and inner energy. People who like you will listen to you and empathize with you; People who care about you will be keenly aware of your emotional changes and care about your inner world. What we often call "soul mates" is the fit in emotional communication, deeply understanding each other, and sharing each other's emotions. When two people who feel sorry for each other meet, love sprouts between them.
Love is not just a simple heartbeat, but also an emotional resonance and exchange. In the world of love, emotional ups and downs are charming, like a whirlpool of passion, which draws us into an unpredictable whirlpool. In this world, we long to be understood, cared for, and cared for. And when we meet someone who can empathize with us and understand us, love blooms in our hearts. Therefore, getting along with you will produce strong emotional fluctuations, because you bring me deep resonance in my heart and make me feel the warmth of love.