Life is like a climb, sometimes at the peak, sometimes at the trough.
After a few slopes, you will understand that the difference between people is in the wisdom of "not being shocked in high places is graceful, and not being cold in low places is joyful".
No one knows when the troughs and peaks will come and how long they will stay, but they must always be actively coped.
If you can move forward steadily in the ups and downs, people will become powerful and things will become smooth.
When encountering unexpected situations, stabilize your emotions and adapt to changes.
No one knows if there will be an accident tomorrow or what will happen in the next second.
But a person with great wisdom should take precautions, even if the wind and rain come, just open the umbrella in his hand.
Emotions and a few complaints can't change the facts, only by adapting to changes can we turn accidents into surprises and crises into opportunities.
For a while, "Song of Xi'an People" suddenly became popular, and there were more people who went to Xi'an to check in.
A reporter came to Xi'an and interviewed a random "local uncle".
The uncle said, "What's so good-looking?" ”
Yes, the uncle has long been tired of seeing the scenery of Xi'an, and he is not very enthusiastic about people who take pictures casually. Perhaps, it was someone from out of town who disturbed his life.
But the uncle suddenly thought that he was the image of Xi'an, and immediately changed his words and said: "Look at the front, the Big Wild Goose Pagoda is a monument of 600 AD, and there are Xuanjiao who have returned from here."
No matter how irritable you are, you have to think about the big picture. This is what the uncle thought of at a critical time.
Yes, when you encounter an unexpected event, it is actually an inflection point in one thing.In philosophy, there is a theory called "qualitative change, quantitative change". When the quantity changes to a certain extent, a qualitative change will occur; Qualitative change is the beginning of a new round of quantitative change.
Every change can bring you something, but once you are troubled, you will not grasp anything.
Lin Qingxuan wrote in "Purple Bodhi": "The occasional joy, enlightenment, and spiritual light in life are like doves and sparrows suddenly coming to our window, and when they fly away, I just need to keep that joy." ”There are many people, and the crowd is also the scenery; There are fewer people, the wind passes freely, or the scenery, there are no accidents, but the heart is disturbed, but it can't adapt to the new changes.
Stillness can give birth to wisdom", understand this truth, and any day can be calmly passed.
When you are too tired from work, stabilize your body and the coming days will be long.
The philosopher Bacon said, "A healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is the prison of the soul." ”
If a person can't stabilize his body, no matter how much money he makes, how big the house is, and how many people in the family are, there is no way to live a good life.
According to the 2019 Survey Report on the Living Conditions of White-Collar Workers, more than 60% of young people spend less than 20 yuan on lunch, not because they pick the door, but because they don't know what to eat, and they don't have time to find or wait for a hearty meal.
Complicated meals, there is no time to cook, even if there is a restaurant in the restaurant, there is no time to wait; Too expensive meals, heart-wrenching to buy.
The work was hard, and I should have eaten better, but it went the other way; What's even worse is that he was hungry and had to work overtime.
Many people make money when they are healthy, but once they lose their health, they know that money is of little use. Accessories on the body, not money can be bought.
Really powerful people would rather make less money and take care of their bodies. Outside of work, he will always be kind to his appetite. Say "no" to those who harm the body.
Life is at a low point, steady your footsteps, and go to the hillside.
When people are at the lowest point, they are like staying at the bottom of a pot, and they set off in any direction, and the uphill road is smooth and not easy to walk.
If you can't move, you stumble and fall. It was terrible and a test of courage.
There is a writer named Rean Xue, who ranked third on the Nobel Prize in Literature odds list in 2019; In 2020, he was once again ranked in the top 10 of the Nobel Prize in Literature odds.
With infinite scenery, she originally only had a primary school education and made a living by being a tailor.
In order to change her fate, she deeply interpreted the articles of Dante, Lu Xun, Shakespeare and others, and then formed her own literary style.
I have been working for many years and have experienced countless rejections. Her writings have gradually become model models for universities such as Columbia and Harvard.
People are more and more fond of things that are "at their fingertips", and the really powerful people are walking slowly, not only with footprints, but also with their own paths.
What separates people from each other is never the starting point, but the attitude of doing things and the courage to be a man.
After success, stabilize your mindset and continue to slow down.
There are always some people who are habitually complacent. Today, if you have a dollar, you have to spend five dimes to show off.
There are also people who take out their own trophies and bask in the circle of friends every day.
The saddest thing is that some people go around giving speeches and talking about success. As a result, studies were wasted.
Wang Anshi once wrote about a person named "Zhongyong", who could write poems since he was a child, and he could sell them to make money. However, he stopped studying, and eventually lost his talent and returned to the countryside to make a living from farming.
Instead of sighing that "hurting Zhongyong" is a tragedy, it is better to reflect on yourself and whether it is stagnant.
Learn from Marie Curie, take out the trophy and use it as a toy for the child, so as to educate the child not to take the grades too seriously, but to tirelessly look for new results.
Lifelong learning, always humble, people to the age of ten, there is still a chance to shine, life at any stage, is spring.
Fashion master Yohji Yamamoto said: "The thing 'self' is invisible, bumping into something else, ** coming back, you will understand 'yourself'." ”There is always something that we can't dodge, and if we do, it will run after you.
The so-called powerful is not that it can turn the world upside down, but that it can "be blocked by soldiers and covered by water", and never panic.
If you feel like you're having a problem, give yourself more ease.
Life is really hard, and when you go to the end of the mountains and rivers, you will be bitter.