Life is always contradictory.
Being in the workplace, intriguing with colleagues, I am really irritable, and I can't wait to retire early.
When I really retired, I suddenly found that I had nothing to do, and I was getting older, and I was melancholy.
Time is easy to throw people away, red cherries, green plantains. It's never set in stone, it's always going to be smooth.
Either way, life has to go on, and everyone expects "good fortune."
Every New Year, we like to say a sentence: "I wish you a safe season, five blessings, and six great blessings."
During the Zhou Dynasty, it was said in "Hong Fan"."Xiang uses five blessings, and Wei uses six poles." One is longevity, two is wealth, three is Kangning, four is good morality, and five is life. ”
It can be seen that if we can open the "five doors" in time and let the blessings pour in, then we will be a person with a good fate for the rest of our lives.
Go out to exercise and bring longevity.
According to the ancients, life expectancy ranks first among the five blessings, and there is a saying that "five blessings hold longevity".
Come to think of it, if people have no life expectancy, they still talk about blessings, this is nonsense.
is an old man alive, but he can't move, his thinking has stopped, the walking dead are like the dead, and most of the blessings are **.
As long as you are healthy and old, you are very happy. After all, we have a pension, we don't have to worry about food and clothing, and we don't want alimony from our children.
In order to live a long and healthy life, we have to go out and exercise every day, not all day long, just stay at home, repeatedly brush small **, or lie down to sleep.Maybe you have fitness equipment at home, but it's still not as good as exercising outside. After all, the air outside is better, and you can communicate with people of the same age about some ways to exercise, encourage and learn from each other.
Life is in motion, don't stop.
Go out shopping and spend money on good fortune.
Many retired elderly people spend money on things while scolding and scolding.
Why are pensions so small? Why are things so expensive. These words, when they are spoken, are resentment and do not do themselves any good. Moreover, the money was also spent, and it could not be recovered.
If you have wealth in your hands, you will be blessed. Withdrawing money, spending money, and savings, if you figure it out, are the three kinds of blessings.Three meals a day, planning to spend money; Wearing clothes, water and electricity bills, saving a province, a series of practices, you are happy to do it, it is a blessing.
People, how can there be a reason to spend money with a straight face?
Compared to the comparison, we are a hundred times better than those old people who do not have a pension. Compared with the era of war and chaos, it can already be regarded as the life of a landlord.
Quit greed, live simply, and become rich and prosperous.
When you go out to see the scenery, peace of mind is a blessing.
In ancient times, when living conditions were not good, people were blessed with "inner peace".
If you look at some reclusive people, you will understand that the state of the heart is higher and you can live better than ordinary people.
Tao Yuanming didn't have much money in his later years, and he still relied on farming to make a living. But he does not seek to be rich and rich, but treats the grass and trees around him as scenery and writes them into his poems.
"Planting beans in the south of the mountain, the grass is full of beans and seedlings. Morningside is desolate, and returns with the moon and lotus. "Isn't it a happy thing to hum a little song, carry a hoe on your back, and see the sunset as soon as you look up?Now, the transportation is convenient, we can travel every three or five times, and we can also go to the countryside to live. With the help of the scenery, the distractions in the heart are cleared, and the happiness index must be quickly going to **.
It's just that you don't have time to go far away, and you're afraid of spending too much money, so it's wonderful to open the door, admire everything at the door, and let the spring breeze pour in.
Go out to do good, accumulate virtue and accumulate blessings.
Retired, you are also a grandparent in the family, don't do things that lack morality. The old man lacked virtue, and the whole family was humiliated. Children and grandchildren will also learn badly.
It is a blessing for everyone to set a good example and continue to accumulate virtue and blessings.
In fact, the elderly in the world can exert their residual heat. As long as you want.
The famous actor You Benchang became popular because of the filming of "Jigong".
In the TV series, he plays Jigong, who looks weird but has a kind heart. Help people pray for rain, bring food to the poor, expose greedy officials.
In his old age, he took care of his seriously ill wife, and gave up his job because of it.
No matter how difficult it was, even if he sold the things at home, he did not give up on his wife. As a result, his wife gradually got better.
When he is free, he will also tell young people how to film, and pass on knowledge without reservation.
Every day when he goes out, the old man has kindness, so he has a fate with everyone, and he will not resent the society. I often have to raise my hands, and when I hear others say "thank you", I feel bad, and it's strange.
The relationship between people is not so complicated, and there is not too much indifference.
If the elderly want to be cared for by others, they must first care for others. It's never about sitting at home, waiting for someone else to come to the door and send warmth.
Go out to raise children and continue to be blessed.
Among the five blessings, the last blessing is "the end of the test". In other words, life should start well and end well, and end peacefully and dignifiedly without illness.
When you retire, you have to have a very good ending, and the root of it is "family happiness". Between generations, there has always been a good interaction.
When the elderly can no longer walk, they can be taken care of by their children and grandchildren, and the elderly live with respect.
Whether or not you can die well has a lot to do with your children's practices. In the long run, it is whether the love of the elderly for their children continues to accumulate and whether it is worthy of their children's feedback.
Clever retired old man, helping to take care of grandchildren, tireless; Help your children start a business, and care about your children for the rest of your life.
There is a good saying: "If the mountain does not come, I will pass." ”
When the elderly go out and go to their children's homes to do something, it is a blessing to suffer. As long as the children and grandchildren are all striving for energy, the blessing will have a long history and no end.
The five blessings are not simply blessings, but the trick of life.
According to the changes of the times, it will be easier for us to adjust the content of the five blessings.
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, it was said in the "New Treatise on Confusion No. 13" that the five blessings were: longevity, wealth, nobility, happiness, and many descendants.
According to your and my family situation, set the content of the five blessings, and insist on doing it, retirement, life will open the second spring.
Push open the door and blessings pour in, why not?