Advice from those who have come over! Avoid spending time with these people during your trip, no matter how good the relationship is
Travel is an experience filled with countless memorable moments and memories. However, finding a good travel buddy can be difficult. Walking with the wrong people can cause conflicts, be unpleasant, and even lead to crises. In the experience of a "veteran driver" with a lot of travel experience, I would like to advise you: don't travel with the following 5 types of people, even if you have a good relationship with them, don't take the risk.
Traveling with people of different economic and social status.
People have different financial situations and different social statuses. However, in the process of traveling, due to different income levels, it can cause psychological unrest and conflict among people. For example, I grew up with some of my friends, and we had a good relationship, but we were quite different financially and socially. In the process of traveling, people have psychological conflicts due to differences in remuneration and perceptions. I was reluctant to ask them to give me a ticket, that would have embarrassed them. So I explained to them and promised never to travel again. We don't travel together anymore, but our relationship has changed for the better, and we eat, talk, and drink together, all with a lot in common.
Travel with people who have different perspectives and acquaintances.
Traveling is a fun thing to do, and different people have different ideas and expectations. I once traveled to Chengdu with a classmate, but we have a lot of ideas and understanding about travel. When I was expecting to travel, I wanted to maximize the value of the trip, but she wasn't interested in traveling at all. She prefers to be uninhibited and uninhibited, while I hope to know the customs and food of some places that I am not familiar with. Such a gap makes us encounter a lot of small frictions and unhappiness in the trip. Therefore, I would like to remind everyone that when traveling, do not travel with people who have completely different views and understandings, and even if you have good friends, you should be cautious.
Travel with people who have very different physical qualities.
Traveling is a physically demanding sport, and traveling with people with very different physical abilities can cause problems for both of them. I once traveled to Chengdu with a person who was not in good health, and she didn't like to go out and was not interested in tourist attractions. When I visited the major attractions alone, she was waiting for me by the flower bed at the entrance of the scenic area. I have seen many beautiful things here, but no one can be with me**. This situation made me very lonely and very uncomfortable. Therefore, my opinion is not to travel with people who are too different in strength to avoid unnecessary troubles and dangers.
Travel with those who have stubborn personalities and love to find faults.
People with stubborn personalities are likely to have conflicts and disputes during their travels. Once, I went to Guangxi with a friend, and he was very frugal and budget-conscious on every trip. He wouldn't be involved in activities that cost money, so I had to follow him, and I couldn't do a lot of things. At a breakfast, as soon as he used it, he immediately got up and waited for me, and did not give me money. When the boss stopped me from paying, he didn't say a word. This was both sad and shocking to me. On this trip, he asked me for five dollars. It is this personality that makes our journey full of depression and unhappiness.
Travel with those who are too frugal.
Traveling is a pleasure that comes at a cost to be satisfied. Traveling with people who are too frugal is likely to result in unsatisfactory travel plans. I once went to Sanya with a friend, she has always been frugal, refusing to eat seafood, refusing to participate in water sports, and refusing to come to the island, just to get cheap. It made me feel depressed, uncomfortable, and the trip became boring. His frugal style prevented me from enjoying the delicious food I was traveling with, nor did he give me the feeling that I was cultivating. Therefore, I will not go with people who are too frugal, because that will reduce the value of the trip.
In short, it is very difficult to find a suitable travel partner, which requires a combination of various factors, such as: common interests, similar financial ability, similar physical conditions, similar three views, etc. If you follow the wrong person, there will be a lot of unhappiness, conflict, and your personal safety will be endangered. Therefore, it is important to be careful when choosing a travel partner. Friend, have you had a similar experience? Please join us on the message board. Thanks a lot!