Ma Sichun starred in the new drama "Fireworks People" after losing 50 pounds, which made everyone see the demeanor of this female actor again.
With the popularity of the TV series "Fireworks", "Ma Sichun has regained his strength" has also become a hot topic on the Internet.
Ma Sichun plays Li Yijin in the play almost every episode of the confrontation with his mother who has no sense of boundaries, and many viewers said that they saw their own experience in Li Yijin, and they deeply empathized with Ma Sichun's performance.
Li Yijin has a mother who pays too much attention to herself, and Li Yijin has no privacy in front of her mother since she was a child.
Mother wants to control Li Yijin's dynamics not only from time to time, but also through her personal belongings, mother hits Li Yijin in dressing, and even wants to deprive her daughter of the right to choose her own clothes, often comparing her daughter with an excellent cousin, suppressing Li Yijin's self-confidence.
In Li Yijin's mother's view, all her daughter's choices cannot satisfy her, studying, working, and being single at the age of 30, in order to let her daughter live as she thinks, she interferes with Li Yijin's life in every way.
used bitter tricks to coax Li Yijin to participate in a blind date, and didn't care whether Li Yijin would lose an important customer because of this.
In order to control Li Yijin by her side, she even hid from her daughter to call the leader and submit a resignation application, with only one sentence in her words: "I'm doing this for your good."
The dilemma that Li Yijin faced when he grew up was not only the challenge of work, the contradiction of love, but also the biggest trouble came from the biological mother who refused to let go and was used to denying him.
Li Yijin didn't dare to disobey his mother at the beginning, and after leaving his hometown to work, he was forced to be miserable by his mother day by day, and finally bravely rebelled and told his mother the grievances that he had suppressed for many years.
There is both anger and helplessness in his eyes, and his explosive acting skills have performed the pain of countless people who are aggrieved and unable to give up their parents.
Ma Sichun played Li Yijin, and her emotional outburst in this role was not a catharsis for her life.
1."Cyber moms" who can never be pleased
Ma Sichun's ability to play the role of Li Yijin so vividly is also related to Ma Sichun's own experience.
Since she was a child, Ma Sichun has been a well-behaved child in the eyes of her parents, she must be well-behaved and obedient in order to be appreciated by her elders.
Being well-behaved can be a child's protective clothing, but it is of little use to adults.
Since Ma Sichun became an actor, everything about her has been commented on the Internet. Ma Sichun was criticized for not fitting the role when she was a little fatter, and her strong figure was not worthy of being the leading actress.
In order to cater to everyone, Ma Sichun can only work hard**, once during the filming of "Left Ear", he lost more than a dozen pounds in seven days, he only drank water without eating every day, and finally his body couldn't stand it and fainted directly.
Ma Sichun almost lost his life in order to cater to the audience's opinion. However, she lost weight and didn't get happiness, and the people who scolded her still emerged in endlessly, but they changed their tricks.
Desperately please, only yourself will be hurt, and you can't make everyone love you.
2.The more you care, the more tangled you become
When Ma Sichun first debuted, she was caught by her acting skills, and after she won the award with her own strength, she was grabbed by her figure and said things, what made Ma Sichun nervous collapse the most was that her career and figure were judged, and she wanted to get married early and was scolded by netizens as a love brain.
Ma Sichun seems to be wrong no matter what she does, no matter what she says, she is scolded, the negative pressure she can't bear makes her gradually depressed, she wants to escape from the Internet, and finally causes her to collapse emotionally, start to overeat, and rely on **drugs**, which causes *** to lead to hormone disorders.
Ma Sichun, who wanted to escape, finally gained 160 pounds, and the state of the whole person was completely different from the peak appearance when she first debuted.
The loss of control of her body made her lose the opportunity to act. In the face of everyone's accusations, she would only hide and cry, she went on variety shows to refute those who criticized her, pretending that she was fine, but her mental state still exposed her heart.
No, she's not good. Because she cares too much about what others think of her, she has low self-esteem to the core.
Finally one day, Ma Sichun figured it out, she no longer wanted to be the excellent child in the eyes of others, she wanted to rebel, she wanted to go crazy, she wanted to control her life, she wanted to block those voices pointing at her.
3.Rebellion is also a form of self-help
What has been bothering Ma Sichun for many years is actually the discipline of "being obedient".
In order to regain herself, Ma Sichun wants to break with her obedient self in the past, and the first thing she does is to control her right to choose a mate.
Outsiders say that she was deceived by the band's scumbag, and she prefers to continue this relationship and love everyone fiercely.
This is very different from Ma Sichun's behavior in the past, if she wants to start living an angular life, she must first be disobedient.
After a few years of romance, there are gradually fewer people who scold Ma Sichun for her love brain, and she has withstood this wave of negative pressure, which is the first victory of her rebellion.
When she found that she was finally able to face the pressure, she gradually learned to ignore the criticism of her body from outsiders. First of all, she changed her lifestyle, and when she was depressed before, she preferred to trap herself in a house without sunlight, and as long as she hid, she could not hear her criticism.
And now she will arrange fulfilling activities for herself, go out to run 5 kilometers, play boxing, swim, and travel abroad to see the scenery.
If you face life more positively, you will reduce negative emotions and fill your life with more fulfilling activities to prevent yourself from falling into overeating again.
Slowly persevering, Ma Sichun's state in all aspects has visibly improved, and she has lost a lot of weight after half a year. Her own change has brought good results, which makes her find that cherishing herself and encouraging herself will make her better and better.
More and more positive feedback makes Ma Sichun feel that she is on the right path, she no longer deliberately goes to **, but insists on exercising for the sake of health and shape, she no longer cares too much about other people's thoughts, but first considers her own planning.
She is not afraid of others revealing her black history, but uses her black history to announce to the world that she has reconciled with herself.
Ma Sichun has not only become thinner, she has also become stronger, she has overcome the self who used to have low self-esteem, sensitivity, and always want to escape.
Now Ma Sichun has started acting again, and announced her life order - family, health, and career are the most important things to her, she threw away her love brain and picked up her career brain again, not because of anyone's requirements for her, but because of her own love.
It is her freedom to fall in love with whom, whether she is fat or thin is her freedom, she is strong now, and her life is in her own hands.
After Ma Sichun's return, he took the lead in choosing to play Li Yijin in the family drama "Fireworks", Li Yijin is like a microcosm, condensing the painful experience of being suppressed and disciplined in the growth of women.
To reinvent a stronger self requires the courage to break away and rebel. Give up flattery, give up revenge, focus your time and energy on what you want to achieve, and only think about running towards your goal, you will find that your heart is gradually enriched, so that you can look at yourself more objectively and not be influenced by others.
Author |Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University with a major in finance, once engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the ** industry for 3 years, a film and television analysis researcher at home and abroad, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, and exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's survival at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.
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