People go to tea and cool, and people disperse at the end of the song. This is human nature, and it is also the law of communication.
It is said that the poor are "no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains". When a person is alive, prestige can bring you good popularity, wealth can bring you the respect of others, and power can bring you relatives and friends who are "close to your relatives and old age". This is also the reality of society, the rich and powerful will be busy in front of the door every holiday, and their parents will be flattered if their children are promising; When parents are capable, their children will become good children in the eyes of others. However, when these powerful and prestigious people lose everything, or retire, or fail in business, or lose their lives, it seems that the world has changed all of a sudden, and their doorstep will soon become crowded.
My father is a prestigious person in the village, and he is good and hospitable, and he is usually at home. Since my father passed away last year, my former best friend has been in contact with each other occasionally, and there has been basically no news.
This may be the current society, once people leave, everything will come to naught. The same is true of family affection, the old man is there, and the family affection is there; When the old man leaves, the family affection becomes weak. Today's family affection is basically difficult for three generations, or even two generations. This is a product of social development and the result of a distorted human heart.
Therefore, when you don't mix well, don't expect family affection, and don't go around visiting relatives and friends, at this time, live your own life and create your own brilliance, which is better than anything else.