"Brothers, be merciful, just mean it. ”
How can this mean meaning, the harder you fight now, the happier you will be in the future.
That's it, that's it, everybody asked us to make the wedding a little better. There's no way you're going to make us fail to complete the tasks we've been told.
Li Ruijia could only smile awkwardly, and then ushered in a slap from his good brother.
February 8, 2013, this day is Li Ruijia's big day. According to local customs, the groom must be beaten to pick up the bride, and Li Ruijia can only follow this traditional process.
Everyone never expected that today's happy event would turn into a funeral. Li Ruijia was beaten by four groomsmen in turn until her trachea ruptured and was admitted to the ICU of the hospital that night. After 43 days, Li Ruijia still died of his injuries.
In recent years, this bad habit has been repeatedly banned, and there are signs of developing more rapidly. Let's take a look back at this wedding that is heading for the funeral, whether this old habit should be given up, and I hope you can find the answer you want in this matter.
Li Ruijia was born in Xiying Village, Qingxu County, Shanxi, his father died in an accident at an early age, and his mother raised him with hard work.
Because her family was poor, Li Ruijia went out to work to earn money after graduating from junior high school, hoping to save enough for her wife as soon as possible and marry her beloved girl back home.
He and his girlfriend were junior high school classmates, and the two were together at the age of the first love. The two went out to work hard together, and they had already made a promise to protect them for life.
In 2013, Li Ruijia was 24 years old, and he wanted to end the long-distance love run between the two for many years and give Zhang Hui a home.
On a romantic night, Li Ruijia expressed her heart, Zhang Hui looked at Li Ruijia and nodded gently.
The parents of both parties have already met, and the woman is quite satisfied with this son-in-law. The two families agreed to set the wedding date on February 8, 2013, which is very auspicious for a fortune teller.
Li Ruijia and Zhang Hui were busy taking wedding photos and choosing wedding rings, although they were very busy during this time, they were extremely happy.
Wedding groomsmen are indispensable, and Li Ruijia's four brothers who have played since childhood have naturally become the first choice.
There are still many traditional customs in Qingxu County, and every family can't escape when they get married.
The last time I got married, my village's brother Dong was beaten and lay in the hospital for a few days, and this time I got married, or I won't do these shows, you can see it. Li Ruijia discussed with Zhang Hui.
I think it's okay, there's no need to do this, and I don't like it either. Zhang Hui also agreed.
Early the next morning, the groom took the groomsmen team to greet the bride, and before he got into the car, Li Ruijia was punched heavily in the abdomen.
It hurts me to death, good brother, let's just mean it today, don't be too ruthless. Li Ruijia gritted her teeth. It's not easy to turn his face on this big day, and the groom can only endure it.
This is not good, our custom is that the harder you fight, the more blessings you will have in the future. Brother Cao Wenxuan immediately answered.
Several other people also agreed, for the sake of today's happy day, Li Ruijia didn't have much to say.
As soon as the car arrived at the door of the bride's house, several groomsmen beat Li Ruijia again. These people may be because the relationship is too good, and they don't have a serious start.
It's not easy to get through, and the bridesmaid group is also all kinds of difficulties. This marriage is even more difficult than going up the knife mountain and going down to the sea of fire, if it weren't for the great joy, who would be able to bear it.
Once the various projects are completed, it is time to pick up the bride and get in the car. Zhang Hui's family lived on the sixth floor, and everyone coaxed Li Ruijia to carry it down.
Zhang Hui is a little fatter than Li Ruijia, and it is usually very difficult to carry it, let alone take the stairs from the sixth floor. Zhang Hui originally wanted to say that she would go on, but the bridesmaid group firmly disagreed.
Li Ruijia was afraid of falling Zhang Hui, so she was careful with every step she took. It was not easy to go down the stairs, and the best man slapped and punched the groom again. Li Ruijia took it all, and when she went down to the first floor, her face was red.
I thought it would be okay to make a fuss during the day, but it was even more excessive when I made a fuss in the cave room at night. The four groomsmen picked up the quilt and covered Li Ruijia with another burst of punches and kicks, and the relatives and friends around him were still shouting and cheering.
Only Zhang Hui was very distressed, she originally wanted to stop it, but she didn't want to spoil everyone's interest on a day like today, so she endured it.
After fighting for a while and still didn't mean to stop, Li Ruijia was already screaming in pain, and Zhang Hui stopped it.
At this time, Li Ruijia couldn't stand up, and her head was dizzy.
The big guy thinks it's almost over, and everyone goes home to rest.
Li Ruijia lay motionless on the bed without even taking off her clothes, Zhang Hui saw that Li Ruijia was wrong and wanted to take him to the hospital to have a look.
Li Ruijia said that it was unlucky to go to the hospital on the day of the wedding, and she just slept for one night.
At about two o'clock in the middle of the night, Li Ruijia vomited and had blood in her mouth.
Zhang Hui was frightened, and quickly woke up her mother and took Li Ruijia to the hospital for examination. As soon as the diagnosis came out, Zhang Hui collapsed on the ground, and tears flowed out.
The diagnosis was:tracheal rupture, subcutaneous emphysema, pneumomediastinum". On February 11, 2013, Li Ruijia, who was seriously ill, was pushed into the operating room, underwent tracheal suturing surgery, and then transferred to the intensive care unit, where she remained unconscious and could only rely on a ventilator to maintain her life.
At the same time, the injury also caused a variety of complications such as "lung infection, respiratory failure, ischemic-hypoxic encephalopathy, electrolyte imbalance, and hypernatremia".
Li Ruijia is in danger.
Li Ruijia had just organized the wedding, and the family didn't have much money, so in order to raise medical expenses, her mother begged people everywhere to borrow money.
not only spent more than 200,000 yuan borrowed, but also owed the hospital more than 100,000 yuan.
The four best men "** only sent 600 yuan, and then never appeared again.
The parties involved in the accident were so indifferent, and Li's mother was full of helplessness.
On the contrary, there were many well-wishers in the hospital, and they saw that this child was so pitiful. Although everyone has no money, 100, 200 do a little bit.
Aunt Wang, who was in the same ward, helped them a lot, and she delivered meals to Li Ruijia's mother every day after she was discharged from the hospital. Originally, the family was not very wealthy, but he still took out the only money he had and handed it to Li's mother. Li Ruijia's mother took the money and knelt on the ground to kowtow to Aunt Wang to thank her.
This was unacceptable, and Aunt Wang hurriedly helped her up.
There is really no way, Aunt Wang suggested asking for help**, hoping to get a loving donation.
can only be a dead horse as a live horse doctor, after ** report, soon received donations from caring people from all walks of life.
Although the money was available, Li Ruijia's condition began to deteriorate, and he finally died after 43 days of rescue.
Zhang Hui learned the news of the death of her newly married husband, and sat on the edge of the bed and kept wiping the wedding photos. Looking at the handsome and energetic husband in the photo frame, he has now become a cold corpse, hugging his mother and crying bitterly.
The loss of a son is painful, and the friend who "violent" his son is even more hateful. Li Ruijia was hospitalized, and no one helped, let alone came to see him.
Li Ruijia's sister Li Chunrui took her mother and younger siblings to the Public Security Bureau to report the case, hoping to get justice for herself.
The four suspects were summoned to the police station one after another, but they still believed that they were not at fault. That's how other people's families get married, and if others are fine, something happens to your family. It must have been your failure to send him to the hospital in time that led to Li Ruijia's death.
Now that everyone is dead, these brothers are still so indifferent that they can only meet in court.
Through the **wedding shooting**, it can be concluded that Li Ruijia was indeed beaten to death with serious injuries. However, there was no intentional injury of subjective volition, and the four people could only be judged to have caused death by negligence.
The four were sentenced to three years in prison and compensated the victims' families for medical expenses and mental damages totaling 920,000 yuan.
Because the four best men's families are not rich families, they can't get so much compensation at all. In the end, under the mediation of the mediator, the two parties reached a settlement, and the four families each paid a part of the compensation, totaling 300,000 yuan.
This wedding trouble also ended in this way, the wedding turned into a funeral, and the white-haired person sent the black-haired person.
Traditional culture certainly needs to be inherited, but these bad habits can really be abandoned. This is not a normal blessing, but a fair and honest violence under the banner of blessing.
Customs should take the essence and remove the dross, and hope that such things will not happen again!!