Introduction: In society, people will inevitably encounter all kinds of people, especially those who try to control you. From the simplest reprimands to the highest level of guilt exploitation, these people will use all kinds of whimsy to manipulate your guilt psychology to achieve control over you, which is the most terrifying.
The protagonist of the story is 66-year-old Aunt He, who lives with her 37-year-old son. The son is nearly 40 years old, but he still has not started a family, and he has nothing to do all day, only relying on Aunt He's pension to survive. This life has been going on for more than a decade, and Aunt He is worried about her son's future but is helpless. One day, a quarrel made Aunt He finally realize that her son blamed her for ruining his life, and Aunt He began to understand this.
66-year-old Aunt He said: My husband and I both work in the same unit, because the work location is close, and we have become familiar with each other for a long time. Soon, we confirmed our relationship, and both parents expressed their support, so we found a good time to get married. With decent and stable jobs and a well-to-do family, we thought it was a match made in heaven, but fate played a joke on us.
After many years of marriage, my husband and I have never had children, and we went through various medical tests and found nothing wrong. In desperation, we turned to a barefoot doctor in the village, who prescribed me a series of prescriptions, which I had taken for more than half a year, but it had no effect and damaged my health.
After the body deteriorates, pregnancy becomes more difficult. During this time, our whole family fell into deep grief, and I even began to blame God for injustice, why can't I have children? My husband was also anxious and even offered to adopt a child outside the home, but I couldn't accept such an outcome.
Since I had no children, my marriage with my husband was broken, and my mother-in-law often provoked us to divorce, privately abusing me as a "hen that couldn't lay eggs". My husband also felt the pressure on me, and during that time I burst into tears almost every day and was even ready for divorce.
It was at this time that I suddenly felt a bout of retching, accompanied by symptoms of drowsiness and dizziness. According to common sense, this could be pregnant. Sure enough, I went to the hospital for a check-up and confirmed that I was pregnant. I was ecstatic, and my husband was excited to hold me in circles. It is worth mentioning that I was 29 years old at that time and had been married for almost 5 years, which is really good news.
After I became pregnant, my position became more secure at home, my husband cared more about me, and my mother-in-law became more enthusiastic and caring, often serving tea and water. I am so grateful to this child, and if it weren't for him, our family would have really broken up. After the child was born, I doted on him, and my husband and in-laws held him in the palm of their hands, which almost spoiled him.
When the child was 3 years old, he actually learned to slap his grandfather. I didn't think it was appropriate, but the old man didn't care at all, and laughed and said that the child was manly. As the child grows up, he almost becomes the "little bully" in the mouth of the neighborhood - he will beat whoever he sees. Her husband and in-laws still laughed and praised him for his talent.
I started to get a little worried about my child's behavior, worried that he would be spoiled. Although I have the heart to educate him, considering the face of my husband and in-laws, and more importantly, I also have deep feelings for this child, after all, I have worked so hard to get it. Therefore, I am reluctant to be too harsh. The child was pampered and grew up in this way.
As his son grew up, he didn't study well either. For this reason, it took a lot of effort for her husband to send him to a nearby technical school. When he graduated, I also arranged a job for him. I thought that my son could live an ordinary life step by step. However, his son's temper was too stubborn, and as soon as he entered the unit, he fell out with the leaders and security guards.
At first, everyone was much more tolerant of my son out of the sake of my husband and me. However, as time passed, his son's behavior intensified. Finally, one time, he was fired because he rushed to the leader's office and pointed his nose at his superiors and insulted them. After losing his job, my son started wandering around the neighborhood, making some friends and often begging us for money.
Our whole family couldn't stand our son's behavior and finally decided not to give him any more money. But my son tried his best to go to the house of relatives and friends to borrow money in our name, and borrowed almost 20,000 yuan. At that time, it was not a small number, and it was because of our son that my marriage with my husband was in jeopardy.
According to the husband, the son came to "collect debts". This unscrupulous thug should be kicked out of his house. However, I was reluctant, thinking that my son was still young and ignorant, and it was normal for young people to have a big temper, and it would be fine when they got married. My husband and I had a heated argument because of our son, which eventually led to a divorce.
After the divorce, my husband still had a conscience, didn't ask for a penny, left silently, and left the house and car to us. Since then, my son and I have lived at home. I still work at work, but he is lazy at home all day, refuses to look for a job, and thinks very highly of himself even though he has no ability.
While the husband was still alive, the son was still subject to some restraints. But with the departure of my husband, my son completely indulged himself and indulged in a foolish life, and I was helpless. Finally, one day, he was arrested for beating people and locked up for several years before he was released. This experience made him a little more well-behaved.
After my son was released from prison, I was already old and about to retire. I hope he can find a job, but he doesn't want to, he feels that he can't do anything and lazes around at home all day. The son's expenses are not small, he needs three or four thousand yuan a month.
When I retired, my pension was about 4,000 yuan, but my son quickly took it away. Even though I didn't want to give it to him, I was worried that he would not be short of money, so I kept taking money from my deposit.
However, according to the speed at which his son spends his money, even a large amount of savings will not be enough. In desperation, I had no choice but to go out and look for a job. Over the years, I've worked a variety of jobs, from cleaners, nannies, to waitresses, and it's ridiculous to say. After all, I'm already an elderly person, and it's not easy to find a job that pays well.
I work outside the home, while my son is at home doing nothing, obsessed with computers, mobile phones and tablets all day long. Every time I go home and see him like that, I feel bad. He is nearly 40 years old, but he is still not self-reliant. Where will he go when I leave one day? Maybe I'll have to beg for food.
I said this to my son worriedly, but he didn't seem to listen at all and ignored my words. Still, I'm used to it, and ten years later, our home is still the same, but my body is slowly aging and slowly moving towards the finish line. I was worried about how my son would be able to live on his own if I left. He can't support himself, and his husband has become estranged from him, so the only thing he can do is to save more money for him so that he can live more comfortably in the future.
I kept working hard in the days that followed. Sometimes when I watch people in my circle of friends retire and travel around, I feel a little unwilling. However, I had to keep looking for work, and some people didn't have as much pension as I did, but so what? After all, I already have such a child.
Although life is a bit difficult, at least it can barely make ends meet. However, I underestimated my son's abilities, and he still has a lot of potential that has yet to be revealed.
One night, I was sitting in the living room watching TV while my son was playing on the computer in his room. Suddenly, the doorbell rang, and I thought it was strange, who would come so late? At first I thought it was my son's takeout, so I got up and went to open the door. But when I opened the door, there was a large group of people in front of me, most of them wearing **, and some people were holding cameras. I was shocked and began to feel uneasy, worried about whether my son was in trouble.
When someone saw me, they politely asked for my son's name, and I told them that he was inside. The son heard the sound and walked out, and was then controlled by the men. I asked them what had happened, only to learn that my son had borrowed a large sum of money online but had not returned it, so he had been sued by the creditor, and now they are coming to collect the debt.
I was so angry that I asked my son on the spot, why did he borrow money because my monthly pension was in his hands? My son lowered his head and didn't say a word, and a person wearing a ** asked him to pay back the money on the spot, but he couldn't take it out, so he turned to me to ask for it. I have so much money? Even if there were, I wouldn't give it to him.
The people wearing ** said they could only take their son back if they didn't provide the money. My son begged me for money in a hoarse voice, and I turned my head and wept silently. In the end, my son was taken away, and before leaving, he yelled at me: "You ruined my life, you ruined me!" Hearing him cry like this, my heart felt like a knife.
Those people were kind, and although they took their son, they promised to follow the legal process and not wronged anyone. Before leaving, they also left a contact**, saying that they could always be contacted if they had any questions or difficulties. I'm grateful to these people, in fact, I didn't cry because my son was arrested, he deserved to be arrested, I cried for myself, for everything I did for my son, and in the end he said that he ruined him, which is really heartbreaking. List of high-quality authors