When people reach middle age, what exactly do women practice in marriage?
The first half of a woman's life is actually a godsend, and most of the second half of her life is cultivated by herself.
People have reached middle age, and they have just experienced a round of female growth from the inside out.
From the physical to the spiritual, from the career to the emotional.
Spiritual practice does not mean to be away from the world, but to unite the body and mind.
What is that woman's cultivation?
The first is the strong mentality, and the second is that your heart is unencumbered.
The key words of the strong are never asking and depending, but value exchange and taking the initiative to give, women with different mentalities will have different lives.
Don't just ask for it, it's too greedy.
There is a kind of partner in marriage, and their thinking is that love also wants money, and they always want to control everyone around them.
Once there is a problem in the relationship, endless accusations and complaints will begin, and even moral kidnapping.
Or if you want your partner to change her mind, you will be humbled and catered to without a bottom line.
In fact, their thinking is to demand.
Whether it's love, money, or companionship, everything is "wanting".
And this is a deep obsession.
Don't take the effort as an exchange.
There are many partners who are willing to give, cherish everything, work hard, and take care of the family.
With endless giving, in exchange for her partner's equal love for her.
But there is no "whip" to restrain the other party, and there is a little less wisdom.
Women in this category tend to be the most hurt.
True love is desireless and desireless.
Although it is giving, it can be reciprocated or not.
I won't ask for love, because I am rich enough and tolerant enough.
You are only in such a state of self-equilibrium.
Only then will you have the source of love, so that love will continue to flow.
Love is giving and balancing.
The strong thinking of the female partner is called I can, what I have, I want to take the initiative to give, but not blindly give.
This companion can lead the other half well.
They can be partners in their careers, role models for their children, and coordinators in the family.
Women who have this kind of great wisdom in marriage know how to break the "self-grasping" in life, and understand that there is no way to have anything in this life.
It's all just your life.
For feelings, it can break the emotional barrier.
Understand that the essence of all encounters is fate and dispersion.
Not attached to a person, not afraid to leave anyone, and not surprised by anyone's appearance.
In marriage, a truly powerful woman.
I will use all the experiences and energy around me to complete myself.
It can give everything, but the heart is not hindered.
When encountering problems, they know how to cross themselves, and they also know how to use wisdom to cross others.
When people reach middle age, only in this way can the love in their hearts be endless, and life will be smooth.