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The blessed don't have to be busy, but the unblessed run away.
If a person is blessed, he will have a smooth life, and he will be rewarded with 100% of his efforts.
It is normal for people who are not blessed to put in 100 percent effort without a return, or they are very satisfied if they get 20 percent in return.
Blessing will not accompany a lifetime, there are early and late, don't worry if the blessing does not come, if you can pass the three levels, you will know whether you are a blessed person or not.
01, the heart is big, and the heart does not pretend to be uncomfortable
Long-term people are more open-minded, they will not take temporary setbacks to heart, and the experience of embarrassment and embarrassment will basically not hurt themselves.
People who can really let go of the past will not pretend to be uncomfortable in their hearts, and those who can look forward will be blessed the farther they look.
If you ask those who live a long life, the older you get, the more energetic the old man will tell you his secret recipe for longevity: big heart, not careful eyes.
Bad luck can happen to anyone, but if you pretend to be in your heart, you care, only you will be hurt, others have long forgotten, and you will not be able to seek justice at all.
If you can forget the person who bullied you back then, it is actually your own blessing, you resent him, hated him, cursed him, and what you lost was your own blessing, and the blessing was finally consumed.
When the heart is big, blessings come.
02. Maintain a sincere attitude
Sociologist Fei Xiaotong has done a study on "factors influencing interpersonal relationships".
Research shows that sincerity is one of the most popular qualities, and hypocrisy is the most disgusting.
Some people say that it is good to get along with people on the surface, but they laugh and scold in their hearts, and everyone is fine.
In fact, the disgust of a person and who is disgusted can be perceived in the heart of the person concerned, and no one can do it seamlessly, and there will be flaws.
Obviously the relationship is not good, but you have to pretend to come forward and care, obviously you talk badly behind your back, and you have to talk sweetly when you meet. is obviously jealous and hateful in his heart, and he still has to flatter him on the surface and wait for an opportunity to take advantage of it.
Such routines may be very popular when you are young, but as you get older, everyone will see through these little tricks, which makes people disgusted.
The mouth can not be sweet, you can not pretend to be a good person, but it is enough to be kind in your heart, be honest, and sooner or later you will be recognized by others.
Resources will automatically flood to those who choose to be sincere and kind in the midst of the ravages of life, such people are gold in the gravel, always shining.
03. Don't say frustrating words
When life doesn't go your way, it's easy to say frustrating words.
In fact, this hurdle or some unsatisfactory things are a test to test a person, just like Tang Seng has to learn the scriptures and it is difficult to learn ninety-nine eighty-one, why should you be blessed?
As long as they do not complain in the face of adversity, do not complain about others, can actively change themselves, and always believe that their future will be better, such people will eventually get their own good blessings.
People who are knocked down by small things in the face of some setbacks will only get worse and worse in the end.
It's like some women marry a man who doesn't make money, and they feel that the sky is falling, and they can only live a poor life in this life.
Such a woman can only become a resentful woman in the end, becoming more and more sloppy and hateful, and it will also affect the fortune of her children.
No matter what difficulties and setbacks we encounter, as long as we maintain a positive and optimistic spirit, make unremitting efforts, and keep our mouth shut about complaining, good fortune will surely be inspired.
If a person wants to live well, don't care too much about temporary difficulties, don't feel that his life is miserable because of comparison with others, and lose self-motivation, be open-minded, things are not as bad as he imagined, treat people sincerely, and be kind no matter what the situation.
After these difficulties in life, good days are not far away.