The reason why I can't speak when I'm angry is because the words I say at that time don't go through my brain, and I try my best to come out and stab others, not the words I really mean.
Therefore, when you are angry and quarrelling, first meditate in your heart for three seconds, and then speak, after all, you will not say irreparable words when you are calm.
When people are emotional, their hair and brain are hot, and they are easy to say too much, and even how angry people say it, in order to make themselves happy, they blurt out something they shouldn't say, and they regret it after they say it. So be cautious when you're angry, and don't say it too late when your emotions are calm. As the saying goes, if you say that you are out of trouble, and if you spill the water when you say it, you can't get it back if you apologize afterwards.
Every one of us knows that if you say it when you are angry, you must be what to relieve hatred and say something, what is difficult to hear, and when the words come out, you want to redeem or want to reconcile but you can't do it as before.
Therefore, when people are angry, don't speak, is the best choice of wise people, when people are angry, it is also the time when the brain is the most impulsive, at that time, the words spoken, the mouth is faster than the heart, that is to say, the heart is not necessarily, want to make things or relationships, but when angry, 100% are not words! That's the real exit hurting people, hurting people and offending people is easy to reverse, and it is even more difficult to repair relationships.