The story of the Jin family is breathtaking. Each of their four sons is so unique, as if they were the work of nature. However, if you look deeper, you will find that these four sons are not so good.
The boss likes to spend extravagantly, drunk and dreaming of death, and his life is full of glitz and noise. The second child is a coward, always timid and indecisive in the face of difficulties and challenges. The third child is a mediocre person, and his existence seems to be to set off the excellence of others. And Lao Qi, a gentleman, his behavior reminds people of the old saying: "You can't be rich for three generations."
The Jin family is a family with a deep heritage, and their ancestors once laid a solid foundation for the family. In order for their children and grandchildren to continue to be brilliant, they do not hesitate to spend a lot of thought and resources to nurture future generations. Confusingly, however, these efforts do not seem to be paying off as they should be.
This begs the question: Why haven't these children grown up to be what their fathers expected? Is there something wrong with the education, or is it the child himself? Perhaps, this is a complex issue that needs to be considered from multiple perspectives.
In this regard, some people believe that it is because their fathers are "too successful" that the children do not receive proper attention and love. Some people also believe that it is precisely because of the wealth and status of the family that the children lose the motivation for self-growth.
The children of the Kim family live a carefree life, and money is nothing more than a number to them. Their spending habits are also amazing. Every time I go out, I am picked up by a luxury car, and when I go to the familiar silk village and foreign bank, I keep accounts, and then settle it at the end of the year by the account office. The accounts of the four young masters are particularly staggering, their monthly expenses all start at a thousand, and the older they get, the more they have a deficit.
These four young masters are now all working in the ** department, and they are getting a lot of salaries. Three of them already have families, but they are still raising children outside.
3. Bao Xizi. Only one of them is still free, but he is also constantly chasing all kinds of women.
The young masters of the Jin family seem to have a unique concept of consumption. They entertain guests, go to the theater, buy gifts, go to the dance hall, and enjoy all kinds of pleasures in life. However, they neglect some important things in life, such as family, career, and health. Their spending habits have also put them in a huge financial crisis.
Regarding the behavior of the young masters of the Jin family, some people expressed their understanding, believing that this was the inevitable result of their family background and social status. There are also concerns that this spending habit will have a negative impact on their future.
At the end of this story, the author can't help but ask: Can the four sons of the Jin family recognize their own problems? Are they able to change their behavior? Will they be able to give hope to the future of the Kim family? None of this is known. But what is certain is that the family's story will continue until their future is revealed. In the glamorous life, they seem to have lost themselves, and these luxuries and glitz have become the whole of their lives. However, behind this, there is a need for money to support it. So, what did the money of these rich sons come from?
The three young masters of the Jin family, although they work in the ** department, their salaries are meager, and they can't even meet the basic expenses of the family. The huge expenses of the Kim family and the profligacy of the sons all depend on the wealth of their father, Prime Minister Kim Quan. The whole family is like a group of parasites on Jin Quan's body, greedily absorbing his wealth and never satisfied.
With such a powerful father, the children naturally became profligate losers. Jin Quan's position can be described as pivotal, he is the prime minister of the Beiyang warlords, holding a lot of power, and many people bow down to him because of his status. Therefore, the young masters of the Jin family have naturally become the objects sought after by everyone. When you go out, there are special boxes and small rooms in the theater, and you can buy the latest products as you like in the store and enjoy the best quality service. Their life seems to be a gorgeous dream, but all this is only because of the face of "Prime Minister Kim".
These young masters take this life for granted, but they don't realize that all the glory and wealth are based on their father's power. Other people's efforts and dedication can only be exchanged for the grassroots positions in the ** department, but Jin Dashao easily entered the rich *** predecessors, and they spared no effort to take care of him. The hard work of others can only barely make ends meet, and the cost of a meal for the young masters of the Jin family is enough to cover the income of others for a year.
Because everything they get is too easy, they not only do not know how to cherish it, but squander it wantonly. Jin Quan also grieved about this, and even threatened to resign all his sons, hoping that they could understand the true meaning of life and the value of money. However, the life of Childe's buddies has been completely surrounded by luxury and glitz, and they can't extricate themselves. At that time, there was a very prestigious father, who constantly broke new ground with his own ability. However, he failed to lead his sons to the right path. Although he had tried to get his son Fengju to resign and let him go to Shanghai to train himself, in the hope that he could be a man again. However, this painless punishment did not have much impact on Feng Ju, and he still lived a life of spending time and drinking, not doing his job.
This father's behavior deeply affected his sons. Not only did he have an unhealthy style in marriage, marrying two aunts, but he also doted on one of them. He often stared at the aunt's jade arms and waist, completely ignoring the feelings of the children. This behavior undoubtedly sets a bad example for children.
After Feng Ju married Wan Xiang, his father was very angry and scolded him many times. However, this did not change Fengju's behavior. Aunt Cui said to her father in a mocking tone, "Hmph! I've seen you through that. For example, if you ask for an aunt's wife, it doesn't count, and you ask me again. If your son asks for one, you get angry. This is only allowed by the governor to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light lamps. These words left my father speechless.
Although this father behaved well in many ways, his lust for beauty was never able to quit. He is like a beast that covets females, blatantly pursuing his desires. However, he always pretended to be a decent gentleman and taught his children to be single-minded. This contradictory way of education has undoubtedly had a great negative impact on children.
The Qing Dynasty politician Wei Yuan once said: "Teaching by example is close to teaching." This father, who knew the classics, should have heard this, but he failed to do it. His actions became a bad example for the children, cultivating a group of crooked-necked stakes. This makes people wonder how much influence does a parent's behavior have on a child's development? In the brilliant literary world, many people have learned about the eternal topic of education. Regrettably, they all seem to be trapped in an invisible circle, that is, the curse of "no richer than two generations". And the reason behind these ** plots is surprisingly consistent: a strict father and a loving mother.
In the family of Chinese feudal society, "the father is strict and the mother is kind" is a common educational concept. It is believed that through the cooperation of parents in black and white, children can be molded into what they want them to be. However, history has proven this notion to be wildly wrong countless times. The abundance of material things provided by the father cannot make up for the desire for fatherly love in the child's heart; And the mother's doting made the child gradually lose the courage to stick to the bottom line.
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Long Yingtai once mentioned in her text: "The fate of parents and children begins from watching the back of the child drift away. This passage touched me deeply. Giving too much protection and doting on children at a young age will only make them grow up with an unbearable burden. And only by being brave enough to let go, allowing children to experience the storm, explore the world, and give them the necessary support when they need it, can they spread their wings and fly further.