Jiang Weimin is the third son of the Jiang family, and there are two younger sisters below. originally thought that Jiang Yafei, who was a fellow mother with him, would be his best ally, but he never thought that under the theory of survival of the fittest in Dahl's evolutionary theory, he would not be Jiang Yafei's opponent in his belly, he was robbed of his nutrition and guts, and after he was born, he would not be Jiang Yafei's opponent. Ten years later, it was discovered that Jiang Weimin was always beaten.
Soft persimmons are always pinched first
When Jiang Weimin was still called Jiang Minqing, he was often bullied by children. was first beaten by Hou Chengnan and Hou Chengbei, the sons of the battalion commander, until their nosebleeds flowed. Later, he was beaten by a neighbor "lazy meat" and went home to complain. Later, when I went home and moved the rescuers, the matter was over.
When Jiang Weimin occupied a seat for the whole family to watch a movie, the circle he drew was ignored by the two children, and he was questioned:
Is this your family's business? ”
I've drawn circles," Wei Min said aggrievedly.
I don't care," they sat down with their stools.
Seeing that the opponent was not afraid of him, he went to find Wei Guo and Wei Dong, as soon as these two brothers came and went to that station, the momentum was very strong, and they only said "You get up". The two children wilted and sat on the side with a stool.
The same thing, different treatment, just because Jiang Weimin is too kind. As the saying goes: "People are good and are deceived by others", which is not false at all. They are not afraid to fight for the people's reasoning, but they are afraid of the sentence "You get up." "Because Wei Guo has a bad reputation for messing with, and if they provoke Wei Guo, they are also afraid of being beaten.
And Weimin has always been known for his "soft persimmons", and it doesn't hurt to hit him twice, besides, he doesn't dare to fight back. This is also the main reason for being beaten for the people, their own quality is not tough, and they still need to be hard to strike iron.
It is good to be kind to others, to be gentle and frugal. But without the softness of the boundary, it will only allow the claimant to gain an inch; Unprincipled concessions will only allow the bully to do whatever he wants. The kindness of people must be a little sharp.
Likes to conform to the herd and lacks assertiveness
One night, the three brothers of the Jiang family met Dehua who was holding a dog skin mattress on the way home, and the eldest and second understood at a glance that Dehua was rejected by Lao Ding. But Weimin didn't know, he didn't even know who Dehua liked, and why Lao Ding was unwilling, two questions were asked, and the second child beat him twice.
Everyone knows that Aunt Dehua likes Lao Ding, and when she sees the world and runs to Lao Ding's house, only he doesn't know, and asks such a stupid question, no wonder the second child beats him.
At the dinner table, Ya Fei asked An Jie if he had spoken ill of his aunt to Jiang Defu, Jiang Defu said, "Who is talking such nonsense," An Jie snorted, Yaning and Yafei also snorted, and Wei Min also snorted. Jiang Defu picked up chopsticks and knocked Wei Min.
Why did you hit me? They hummed too! Wei Min said aggrievedly.
I don't hit women." Jiang Defu said confidently. Eating at the same table, Jiang Weiguo and Jiang Weidong didn't follow An Jie and they hummed, because he was not assertive and liked to do things with others.
There is a very incisive description of this in "The Rabble":
Once a person is caught in a group, his IQ drops instantly, and he will give up his thinking in order to gain the approval of others.
Therefore, it is not surprising that Jiang Weimin was beaten.
Whistleblowers are mostly not liked.
The brother and sister stole the peach cake, but Jiang Weimin didn't eat it. Jiang Yafei promised him to let him eat two pieces too, so Wei Min decided not to tell the adult, but when he gave the first piece to his youngest sister Jiang Yaning, he found that the peach crisp in the cabinet had been eaten. Jiang Weimin was instantly unhappy, and immediately told An Jie that they had eaten up the peach cake.
An Jie did not blame the other brothers and sisters who stole the peach cake, but gave Wei Min a slap.
It's you, the whistleblower," An Jie said righteously.
Jiang Defu and An Jie quarreled, the two slept in separate beds, Dehua stabilized the overall situation, and locked the door of An Jie's house, An Jie came back and saw that the door was locked, he was very angry, and called a few children out. After the three of them came out, Yafei and Yaning both said that it was not them, only Jiang Weimin said.
It's not me, but I know who did it, it's my aunt. ”
An Jie asked Yaning to go to Dehua to open the door, and Yaning scolded Weimin.
You traitor Fu Zhigao".
Dehua scolded the people, "This little rabbit cub has not had a gentleman since he was a child." ”
In the context of that great era, everyone hated the whistleblower and regarded him as a thorn in the side and a thorn in the flesh, but the people were just such a person, although there was no big secret involved, but this behavior was really disgusting. Therefore, almost every time he informs people, people avoid him and want to beat him.
Of the five children of the Jiang family, only Wei Min was beaten from childhood to adulthood, and later he did not mix well, and after going to the countryside in the mountains, he became a laid-off worker with his wife. If An Jie hadn't tried his best to win over the two of them and come to the teahouse, it is estimated that he would be ordinary in this life, not even as good as a normal person.