Some people's life journey is full of uncertainties, what you thought was bad luck could turn into good luck in an instant, and what you thought was the beginning of a happy life could be the prelude to bad luck in the next moment.
On the Internet, a widely circulated article tells the life of an ordinary general surgeon who was abandoned by his parents at birth, but he was fortunate to be adopted by his adoptive father, Yang's mother, and loved by them.
However, just when it seemed that his life was about to usher in a new dawn, fate ruthlessly put an end to his life.
One winter night in 1985, in a hospital in a small city, the medical staff on night duty overheard a sound similar to the meowing of a cat, but because the outpatient clinic was closed at that time, and there was an iron gate in the middle, everyone thought it was a kitten barking.
However, unexpectedly, the voice was made by a baby boy whose umbilical cord had not yet fallen off, who was only wrapped in a thin blanket and was bruised from the cold. The next morning, when the patrolling doctor found him, he had already been placed in an incubator in the obstetrics and gynecology department.
After examination, the doctors did not find any illness in him, so the boy was taken care of by the female doctor and the female ** of the hospital in turn. Soon, news of an abandoned baby boy in the hospital spread in the town, and many people came to visit him with powdered milk and even wanted to adopt him.
Although it was impossible for the hospital to take care of him all the time, after thousands of choices, the boy was handed over to Chen Meijuan, the head of the obstetrics and gynecology department, who said that she would hand the boy over to relatives in the countryside to take care of.
The relatives in the countryside arrived half a month late because of some delays, and the doctors at the hospital and ** did not want the boy to become a "rural person", and they tried their best to persuade Chen Meijuan to keep the child.
Chen Meijuan is 40 years old and has not had children for more than ten years of marriage, and the couple has already established a relationship with the child, so they decided to keep the child by their side.
Chen Meijuan's husband is the vice president of the bank, and the two have a good family. They named the child Chen Tianci and regarded him as their own son. No matter where they go, they have to take it with them, and they often discuss with others about their children's food and clothing.
Everyone felt that God's luck was very good, although his biological parents abandoned him, he was adopted by the Chen family and his wife by mistake, and in this small city, the Chen family was already a good family.
Tianci can be regarded as winning at the "starting line" of this small city. However, Chen Meijuan discovered some problems when Tianci was 5 years old. Tianci was hospitalized for pneumonia, and during the examination, he was found to be a "big three yang" of hepatitis B, and it is likely that his mother was a hepatitis B patient, and hepatitis B was transmitted to Tianci through mother-to-child transmission.
Chen Meijuan was once disappointed, but the comfort of the experts and her efforts made the God-given "big three yangs" become "small three yangs", and the liver function has always been normal. Tianci not only has excellent academic performance, but also is versatile, and is a popular figure in the school.
Chen Meijuan and his wife's meticulous training paid off, and he was successfully admitted to a famous medical university in the province. Before Tianci went to college, Chen Meijuan and his wife confessed his life story to him, and they respected his choice, whether he went to his biological parents or not.
Tianci decided to return to Chen Meijuan after graduation to repay her nurturing grace, and at the same time, he also wanted to return to work in the second-class hospital in this small city to repay the hospital's "life-saving grace".
Chen Tianci graduated from graduate school and returned to the second-class hospital in his hometown, and his decision was surprising. His school is well-known in the local area, and graduate students usually choose to stay in tertiary hospitals in provincial capitals.
This second-class hospital doesn't even want to come to the undergraduates who graduated from that school. But Chen Tianci chose to return here, he wanted to return to the hospital, and he also wanted to be filial to his parents.
However, not long after Chen Tianci went to work, his father died of an acute heart attack. At his father's memorial service, he said: "It is the eternal pain of my life that my son wants to support but does not treat my relatives. ”
This sentence touched everyone. Since then, in addition to working hard, Chen Tianci has also taken care of his mother more attentively. Everyone saw that he was a grateful child.
At that time, people thought that Chen Tianci's life would be smooth sailing after experiencing the tribulations of his first life. But that's not the case. As the only graduate student in the hospital who graduated from a prestigious medical school, he received preferential treatment of "department optional".
He chose the general surgery favored by many male doctors, and never relied on his "connections" to cheat and cheat, but worked hard, studied hard, and humbly sought advice. Soon he made great progress in his medical skills.
At the age of 33, Chen Tianci was promoted to deputy chief physician and deputy director of general surgery, and he could only be promoted to the main post after the retirement of the director of general surgery. His medical skills have become famous throughout the city, and many people have come to seek his **.
In addition, Chen Tianci's emotional intelligence is also very high, he treats people warmly and likable. Everyone in the hospital loved him, and even some of the medical staff who had taken care of him, he would affectionately call them uncles and aunts.
His way of dealing with people made everyone feel comfortable, so he soon became the "male god" of the hospital, and many female medical staff wanted to pursue him, and the older ones even introduced him to someone.
Chen Tianci's choice was even more surprising, he married Wang Lin in the hospital and soon gave birth to a daughter. The daughter is as beautiful as her mother, as smart and clever as her father, and is likeable.
Moreover, although Tianci's mother Chen Meijuan is 73 years old, she is physically strong and lives very close to them, so she can help take care of her little granddaughter. At this time, Chen Tianci's life seems to have reached the pinnacle of his life, the husband and wife are harmonious, the family is happy, and everything is perfect.
However, it all reached its peak in Chen's life. After the peak, his life began to go downhill.
In the summer of 2018, the news of Wang Lin's resignation came out of the hospital, and Chen Tianci also looked very disappointed. Later, everyone learned that Wang Lin and Chen Tianci had divorced, and there was also news that Wang Lin eloped with the "rich and handsome" who was hospitalized with a fracture.
The whole hospital was shocked, and some people went to ask Tianci and Chen Meijuan, but they didn't say a word about Wang Lin, only saying that the husband and wife "have incompatible personalities" and "fate is over", and downplayed this matter.
However, even if this matter is no longer talked about in the hospital, Chen Meijuan, Chen Tianci and the youngest daughter are always worried about it. Not long after, Chen Meijuan went to the kindergarten to pick up her little granddaughter, but the girl was crying for her mother.
Chen Meijuan wanted to hug her granddaughter, but she fell to the ground, and was sent to the hospital by other parents for investigation, and found that it was a cerebral hemorrhage, and the situation was very serious. He was unconscious when he arrived at the hospital.
When Chen Tianci heard the news, he rushed to the emergency room and cried, and the director of the emergency room couldn't say anything comforting, only that he cried out and held back. After crying, Chen Tianci accompanied her mother for 9 days, Chen Meijuan finally woke up from a coma, although her life was worry-free, but she was left with sequelae of half-body paralysis and slurred speech.
Chen Tianci is selfless and dedicated, and he never abandons his seriously ill mother. He took a three-month long leave to send his daughter to the "long nursery" in the kindergarten to take care of her mother wholeheartedly.
Chen Tianci knew that the caregiver could be perfunctory, so he did it himself and arranged everything carefully. After several months of care, although the mother was bedridden, she did not have a single bedsore and her language function recovered.
However, the mother's hemiplegia may not recover. Caring for patients who have been bedridden for a long time requires a high level of care and patience, and Chen Tianci's outstanding performance has won unanimous praise from the hospital.
Although he was deeply touched by his filial devotion to his mother, work and life always needed to go on. The hospital leaders understood Chen Tianci's predicament and began to persuade him to accept the reality that his mother could not be completely **.
The director of the general surgery department of the hospital is about to retire, and the hospital hopes that Chen Tianci will take over the work of general surgery. At the same time, the dean proposed to let Tianci take his mother home to take care of him, or send him to a special nursing home, and the hospital would solve the nursing costs so that Tianci could concentrate on his work.
Although the dean's proposal was both reasonable and generous, after all, it was impossible for the hospital to approve Tianci to take leave to take care of his hopeless mother for a long time, but Tianci insisted on rotating in the emergency department.
The emergency department is busy with difficult patients and disputes, and everyone is reluctant to go. However, Tianci took a fancy to the rotation system in the emergency department, so that he could have more time to take care of his mother at home.
Chen Tianci believes that even if there is monitoring equipment at home, he still feels uneasy. He hopes to be able to spend an extra year with his mother and change his daughter back to daycare, so that her mother can enjoy family fun every day.
Although the hospital leaders agreed to him to go to the emergency department for rotation, they probably could not have predicted that Chen Tianci would encounter so much trouble in the emergency department. Because the days in the emergency department were like opening a "Pandora's box" full of troubles for Chen Tianci.
At the end of 2018, Chen Tianci successfully rescued an elderly man who was too late to be sent to the inpatient department on the first night shift of the emergency department. However, the old man's son paid for tracheal intubation rescue after being frightened by Chen Tianci.
However, when the old man's condition stabilized, he went to the emergency department**, complained that the cost was too high, saying that the old man was an "old sick number", and he could reimburse 80% of the cost if he opened a bill to be hospitalized in the emergency department.
He also accused Chen Tianci of "withholding" patients for profit without permission, and demanded that Chen Tianci "reimburse" the rescue expenses. Although the hospital came forward to coordinate and suggested that the cost be included in the hospitalization fee, the family still did not give up, believing that the extra 20% of the money was still a "loss".
In the end, Chen Tianci chose to pay this fee out of his own pocket to end the dispute.
Chen Tianci is an emergency doctor, and he has encountered many ** patients in the emergency department, most of whom are drunk. Some people think that he is too slow to see a doctor, and some people think that he is looking down on them by going to rescue seriously ill patients first.
To ease his mood, he learned to smoke and drink. Although he was advised not to do so, he felt that doing so would temporarily relieve his stress. Unfortunately, Chen Tianci has a family with hepatitis B.
He was originally the "big three yang", but his colleagues didn't know this, so they drank with him. Although the slightly drunk Chen Tianci looks more cute than usual and can talk heart-wrenching words, some people still persuade him to find a new partner.
Chen Tianci said that he was old and young, and getting married would only drag the other party into the quagmire, and taking care of his mother also made him exhausted. During his work in the emergency department, Chen Tianci always stayed up all night to take care of his mother.
He often turned on the monitor to pay attention to his mother's situation, and called ** to wake up the nurse to take care of her. As a result, he always looks low on energy and needs to rely on coffee to refresh himself. Despite the hard life, he was able to endure it.
However, just when he was about to return to work outside the general area, something happened again.
On that day in the emergency room, Chen Tianci encountered a drunken patient. After the surgery, this patient began to sexually harass **. Chen Tianci couldn't stand it, scuffled with the patient, and also injured the patient's escort with a stool.
Since that day, these two people have been pestering Chen Tianci and constantly asking him to pay a "** fee" of 100,000 yuan. Even if the hospital transferred Chen Tianci to the Department of General Surgery and told all the security guards to drive them away if they saw them, they were still able to sneak into the hospital in various ways and regularly come to Chen Tianci to ask for money.
If Chen Tianci ignores them, they will come back next time; If Chen Tianci couldn't help but scold, they would take a picture and edit the collage, and then post it on social **, claiming that the doctor was insulting the patient, which caused netizens who did not know the truth to "cyber violence" against Chen Tianci.
In the days that followed, they not only intensified, but also hinted that they wanted to harm Chen Tianci's daughter, which made Chen Tianci troubled and full of fear.
What's even more helpless is that they only said once that they explicitly asked Chen Tianci to give money, and Chen Tianci didn't have time to record, and then they just came to the hospital to tell their misfortune and asked Chen Tianci to meet their requirements, which made Chen Tianci even have no evidence to call the police.
Under such circumstances, Chen Tianci decided to move to another city with his mother and daughter and work in a different hospital, hoping to get rid of these troubles. However, Chen Tianci did not succeed in transferring out in the end because he "had an accident".
The first incident happened one night, in order to answer the ** of his classmates, Chen Tianci did not hear the rescue call of the patient's family, and when the ** was found, it was too late to go to the rescue.
Although the patient was in the advanced stage of stomach cancer and was extremely exhausted, Chen Tianci felt very guilty and blamed himself because he choked on vomit and suffocated in his trachea.
Another thing is that Chen Tianci was dragged by his colleagues for examination because of a high fever, and liver cancer was detected. Everyone thinks that this is related to his long-term fatigue, depression and drinking to drown his sorrows, and some people regret that they couldn't pull Chen Tianci to quit drinking.
But now it's useless to regret it. After Chen Tianci was diagnosed, colleagues in the hospital were shocked and sad, and they spontaneously went to take care of Chen Tianci. In order to treat the disease, Chen Tianci agreed to let his ex-wife Wang Lin take his daughter and let the hospital arrange for Chen Meijuan to go to a nursing home.
Then, accompanied by his colleagues, Chen Tianci went to Tianjin for surgery. After the operation, his colleagues took turns to accompany him and cook for him, but they also knew in their hearts that Chen Tianci's condition had reached a dead end.
Chen Meijuan has been worried about whether her son will suffer from liver cirrhosis in the future because of this disease since Tianci was diagnosed with "Da Sanyang" at the age of 5. However, the cruel reality is that Tianci was only in his 30s and had already been killed by liver cancer.
Every time Tianci went to see Chen Meijuan, Chen Meijuan always held her son's hand tightly and cried silently. When someone saw this scene, they couldn't help but sigh that fortunately, Chen Meijuan didn't know what happened to her son in the emergency department, otherwise she might cry blind.
In October 2021, Chen Tianci's life came to an end. In the hospital ward, colleagues took turns to accompany him, and Wang Lin also brought her daughter to see him for the last time.
He closed his eyes forever after leaving a sentence of "I am happy because of you". This year, Chen Tianci was 36 years old, and his life was fixed in his "youth".
Due to the epidemic, the funeral home only allowed 5 people to accompany him, and no memorial service could be held.
And his 76-year-old mother still didn't know the bad news, and no one dared to tell her the news, because she couldn't bear such a blow.
It is widely believed that Chen Tianci was a man full of suffering, especially in the last three years of his life, when he experienced the separation of husband and wife, his mother's illness, his work difficulties, and his terminal illness, as if all the misfortunes had befallen him, which made people feel moved.
However, Chen Tianci insisted that he was happy, because he saw the kindest side of human nature, felt the company of colleagues and friends, experienced family and friendship, and saw the brilliance of human nature.
This is also why those who know him burst into tears every time they mention him. We may not be able to change the arrangement of fate, but we can choose how to look at it, can we?