"The daughters are innocent, and I don't want them to lose their innocence because of their wealth. In this environment, they are more able to maintain simplicity and purity. ”
Ten years ago, after a family storm, it left an inseparable memory. "Parents' Love" delicately shows the ups and downs of An Xin, An Jie, Jiang Defu, Ouyang Yi and other characters on the big screen, and the plot of An Xin going to the island to serve An Jie's confinement now seems to be an ingenious calculation.
An Xin was once the flower of a prosperous family and married Ouyang Yi, a wealthy young master. However, a twist of fate plunged the couple into the poverty and depression of Montenegro. Ouyang Yi, a former cultural person, had to work as a coolie at the dock, while An Xin was also engaged in the hardest noodle pressing work, and the family struggled in Xiaoheidao. In this difficult environment, Ouyang Yi felt an indescribable sense of humiliation in his heart, and their lives were stung by the harshness of the eyes of society.
Ouyang Yi was once a high-level intellectual and had a prominent reputation. However, in the special era, he was sent to Xiaohei Island, and once lost all his brilliance. Living on the island, he needs to let go of his once glorious status and transform into an ordinary laborer on the docks. In the eyes of the outside world, they are servants and mothers, and the loss of dignity makes Ouyang Yi very depressed.
Ten years ago, Jiang Defu inspected Xiaohei Island and stumbled upon Ouyang Yi's predicament. Knowing everything, he asked An Jie why he was hiding it from him, and began to help Ouyang Yi's family. All this happened without An Jie's knowledge, and An Xin made a decision at this critical moment. She understood that Ouyang Yi could no longer indulge in her self-esteem with damaged dignity, and in order to protect the dignity of her family, she decided to go to the island to serve An Jie in confinement.
Jiang Defu proposed that An Xin take care of An Jie and create more opportunities for the family. However, An Xin did not bring her two daughters. This is not that An Xin ignores her daughter, but that she is well versed in the strictness of society and understands the importance of identity and status in a special era. She doesn't want her daughters to feel the unfairness of society, and she doesn't want them to lose their simplicity in the midst of wealth.
An Xin's decision was actually a clever calculation that killed three birds with one stone. First of all, she was afraid of creating the illusion of inferiority in the children's minds, so as to prevent the children from feeling inferior. Secondly, she understands An Jie's personality and knows that sisterhood is not enough to ensure that life in the Jiang family will be treated fairly. Most importantly, she knew that her choice would have a profound impact on the future of Ouyang Yi's family. This arrow not only protects the hearts of the daughters, but also creates a more free and equal growth environment for the whole family.
Today, ten years later, we look back on "Parents' Love" and deeply feel An Xin's intelligence and bravery. Her plan to kill three birds with one stone not only protects the dignity of the family, but also creates a difficult but loving growth environment for her daughters. An Xin's decision-making shows her independence and autonomy as a woman, and her intelligence, kindness and gentleness deeply touched us. Perhaps, the true love of parents is reflected in this trivial and deep life. I hope that every family can find their own happiness in silent dedication.