Life, in the final analysis, only self-knowledge. Some things can never be found if they are lost, and some people can not last long after they meet. Outsiders say that Luo Yuanniang is really a lucky person, born in such a prominent family, with a noble identity, and has been the focus since she was a child. But who knows her suffering?
When the Xu family was down, Xu Lingyi's relatives left him one by one, and the whole family was in trouble. Luo Yuanniang's grandfather took the risk to intercede for him, giving him the opportunity to go to the battlefield to make meritorious contributions and revive the family. In the end, Xu Lingyi really lived up to expectations and brought new glory to the Xu family.
When they grew up, Luo Yuanniang and Xu Lingyi got married. She was a beautiful and intelligent woman, a valiant general, and to outsiders, they were a match made in heaven. However, only Luo Yuanniang herself knows that her married life is not as happy as outsiders imagine. She had expectations, but those expectations had turned into disappointment. She kept telling herself that Xu Lingyi just had a cold personality, and she didn't really love her.
After becoming a mother, Luo Yuanniang's mind gradually shifted to her son Xu Sizhen. The child was born prematurely and was physically weak, which cost her dearly. Watching her son grow up day by day, her heart was full of worries.
When she was in her mother's house, she had seen the life of her father and many wives and concubines, and knew how strict her mother was in managing the family. These experiences had a profound impact on her, leading her to do the same after becoming a mistress.
Xu Lingyi and Luo Yuanniang once had a harmonious time. He gave her all the respect and decency, but their perceptions grew more and more divided. He cares about the people, hoping to fulfill his father's and brother's last wish, reopen the sea ban, and ** the plague of piracy. But she pays more attention to the honor and status of the family, hoping that he can bring higher honor to the Xu family.
This disagreement eventually led to their constant quarrels, and the rift between the couple grew. Luo Yuanniang proposed that Xu Lingyi fight for the title many times, but Xu Lingyi ignored her request. He didn't understand, Luo Yuanniang was not like this in the past, and now she has become strange. The differences between the husband and wife deepened, and the original mutual respect gradually disappeared, which eventually led to the gradual separation of the hearts of the two. However, as a mother, Luo Yuanniang has always adhered to her original intention of protecting her children. Since the birth of her son, she has been planning for his future and knows how deeply parents care for their children, and this motherly affection is touching.
However, after a miscarriage, her physical condition deteriorated. Although she was puzzled by the changes in her body, she had no time to delve into it, so she could only use the remaining time to continue to pave the way for her son and do her best to protect him.
Luo Yuanniang is not a kind person, her heart is full of scheming and selfish desires. She carefully planned to let one of the sisters in the family choose to become Xu Lingyi's steproom, so as to assist her in staying in the Xu family to take care of the children. And Erniang and Eleven Niang, as suitable candidates, entered her sight. At the same time, she also has to face another strong competitor - Qiao Lianfang, the daughter of the Guogong Mansion who has always admired Xu Lingyi. Qiao Lianfang has a noble identity and is related to Mrs. Xu, if Luo Yuanniang did not have a pre-layout, she is very likely to become Xu Lingyi's stepfamily.
Although Xu Lingyi later emphasized to Luo Yuanniang that he had never thought of marrying Qiao Lianfang, the mutual trust between the husband and wife had disappeared due to long-term disagreements. Luo Yuanniang's disappointment with Xu Lingyi is increasing day by day, and she no longer trusts this man who once thought she could be entrusted with for life. It is precisely because of this that she bothered so much to arrange her son's future. This is undoubtedly the saddest part of her life.
Therefore, at the spring banquet in Xufu, Luo Yuanniang took the opportunity to lay out and let Qiao Lianfang appear in front of Xu Lingyi in rags. She knew that Xu Lingyi liked the habit of resting in Jing'an Xuan after watching a play in Dianchun Hall, and took advantage of this opportunity to skillfully arrange Qiao Lianfang's appearance. This scene became a turning point that changed the fate of the Xu Mansion, and also laid the groundwork for her future struggle with Qiao Lianfang. Qiao Lianfang rose and fell in the interests of the family, and her good wishes finally came to naught.
It all stems from a sinister layout, the elaborate location of the concubine's room, luring her into a trap. On that sunny day, she was dressed in a wedding dress, but she couldn't enjoy the joy of being newly married, and stepped on the small sedan chair leading to Xu's mansion alone. The rain drenched her clothes and drenched her heart. In front of Xu Lingyi, the true feelings she had paid turned into empty talk, and she became the laughing stock of the world at night.
Luo Yuanniang's strategy is vicious, but it also shows her thoughtfulness. Qiao Lianfang's entry into the mansion not only shattered her dream of becoming a stepmother, but also made the other concubines in the mansion jealous of her in their marriage choices. And this jealousy comes from the power of the Luo family. In this competition for power, Qiao Lianfang was forced to become a bargaining chip.
For Xu Lingyi, his heart is hidden in the deep mansion. Regarding his son's family affairs, he had a disagreement with Luo Yuanniang. He wanted to find political help for his son, and she valued the status of the Jiang family. But in this game of interests, Luo Yuanniang used ingenious means to set up a family affair with Miss Jiang Jiajiu for her son. And the hidden crisis behind this marriage is only clear to her.
Luo Yuanniang understands Xu Lingyi's character and knows his love and righteousness. On her deathbed, she begged him to marry Eleven Niang in order to find peace for her soul. After Xu Lingyi agreed, she passed away with peace of mind, leaving behind the many crises in the Yongping Marquis Mansion and the future of Eleven Niang. Luo Yuanniang's life story is full of unique twists and turns. Her illness was rare, leaving the doctors helpless, and her son was entrusted to the care of Eleven Niang.
This mother, with her infinite wisdom and strength, has achieved such a point, and has already shown great greatness. Although Yuan Niang calculated many innocent people in order to lay the future for her son, sacrificing their originally peaceful life. However, it was her plans that prompted Xu Lingyi and Eleven Niang to become husband and wife. Perhaps, Luo Yuanniang never thought that her long-time husband, Xu Lingyi, who was always calm and self-controlled, would show tenderness and affection in front of Eleven Niang.
Respect each other as guests"This word, in fact, is more often just because there is no affection. When Xu Lingyi treated Eleven Niang, his gentleness, lingering and active flattery all showed his deep love for her. He did his best for her, just to bring her dignity and respect, which is what love really looks like.
"Jinxin Like Jade" is on the air, although Luo Yuanniang only appeared in five episodes, she left a deep impression on the audience. She has the demeanor of the eldest lady of the family, beautiful and intelligent, good at both grace and power, and good at planning. She cannot simply be seen as a good person, and she even sacrificed her own sister for the sake of her son, which undoubtedly shows her selfishness. However, at the moment of dying, her determination and affection to lay the future for her son were deeply touching.
In "Jinxin Like Jade", were you shocked by Luo Yuanniang's appearance? Have you ever been impressed by her schemes? And when she went offline, did that deep maternal love also move you? This character is full of complex human nature, and people's evaluation of her is full of contradictions, but she is undoubtedly a character worthy of our deep consideration.