Why do many men dare to cheat?
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Because there are many men who want to cheat, when you meet a good-looking woman, you want to take a second look, there are men on the Internet who can talk to and want to be ambiguous, there are too many.
Among the ten men, maybe eight men are like this, but among these men, not all men dare to cheat, cheating requires a certain foundation, many men are afraid and can't afford the price, so they have a thief's heart but no thief's courage.
Men who have the heart and courage of a thief do not mean that their own conditions are good, and they are not afraid of divorce.
Instead, they have more means, and they can control their wives and make their wives dare not divorce, so they dare to cheat.
Like the one Blue Fang contacted before, the original wife who wanted to save the marriage.
How did this wife confide in Blue Fang?
The approximate meaning is that her husband has been cheating for half a year, and she has been found out for more than a month, and she has been very miserable for more than a month, and she has quarreled with the cheating man several times, and the attitude of the cheating man is that it is impossible to break up with the mistress, because the mistress gave him what his wife can't give.
What can't a wife give? It's all ethereal feelings, such as understanding, respect, and so on.
This is basically the vast majority of cheating men that they like to use as an excuse the most.
A slightly more independent and assertive wife may directly scold when she hears these excuses from cheating men.
He didn't mention the need for understanding and respect before he cheated, so what kind of understanding and respect do he talk about after cheating?
But the worst thing is that no wife has an opinion, and she is not independent enough.
They feel that the cheating man is right, and the cheating is caused by her not being good enough.
Many people may accuse their wives of saying this: Is it stupid? Why are you so humble?
When did a man's cheating become his wife's fault, why did he cheat, and why did he blame his wife?
There may also be some people who think that what the cheating man said may be true, and it is the problems between husband and wife that cause the cheating.
What does the Blue side think? We can't just listen to what the cheating man says, and we can't look at what the original wife thinks, we have to understand how the cheating man and his wife get along before they have an extramarital affair.
After understanding the actual situation, you can analyze whether what the cheating man said is true or false.
Is the cheating man simply looking for an excuse to cheat, or does he say that there is indeed a thing, and the wife also needs to bear some responsibility for cheating.
Lan Fang spent a few hours guiding this original partner to explain in detail the details of her life with the cheating man, big and small affairs, and only after understanding them all clearly can she come to a real analysis.
Blue Fang believes that this man has nothing to do with his wife's cheating.
And this man is a man who has planned to cheat, and he has made some preparations for cheating.
Before the cheating man and his wife got married, the cheating man was obedient to his wife and felt that his wife was good.
At that time, the conditions of the cheating man were not as good as his wife, he was not so coaxing, and it was estimated that his wife would not necessarily marry him.
The biggest problem of this wife is that her ears are soft, and she is easily influenced by others, and the cheating man says that he loves his wife very much and wants to marry her, how will he treat his wife well after marriage.
This wife soon fell, and when they got married, the cheating man had nothing.
The wife paid a down payment to buy the wedding house, and the bride price or something went through the motions, such a wife doesn't understand and doesn't respect the cheating man?
This man's conversion came after his wife gave birth to a child.
After giving birth to a child and getting out of shape, the cheating man began to silently suppress his wife.
The man's suppression is definitely not directly saying to his wife: You are out of shape, you are getting uglier and uglier.
According to the wife's conditions, even if the wife has soft ears, it is impossible for her to be directly attacked and not react.
The cheating man is a different form, he says that his wife is not as good as before, but he is loyal to his wife at the same time.
That is to say, the wife's figure is not good enough, but the cheating man does not dislike it, and the cheating man still loves him, this sentence sounds like an expression that the cheating man is the same as ever to his wife, and the cheating man loves his wife.
In fact, the point is that the wife is not in good shape, and the cheating man does not dislike it, but others may dislike it.
suppressed his wife, and also his wife on time, she can't do without a cheating man, because others will dislike her.
So why the blue side analyzes that this man is premeditated to cheat, it is because of this.
Before a man prepares to cheat, he suppresses his wife and makes her feel that she is not good enough
felt that if she left the cheating man, then she might not be able to find the one who loved her so much.
After cheating, the cheating man directly blames his wife and dumps the blame on his wife.
Not only does the wife dare not divorce, but she will also doubt herself and feel that she is also responsible for cheating.
Not only will it not treat the cheating man well, but it will not divorce, but it will also humbly redeem the cheating man.
This cheating man had foreseen such a result a long time ago, so he dared to cheat.
In the end, Blue Fang wants to remind all women, how are you, don't listen to other people's comments.
Even if this person is your pillow person, even if he usually shows that he loves you.
It's not that we're not happy to accept criticism, but you need to have your own judgment.
Don't think that a few words of suppression from others will lead to self-doubt, and then you don't even dare to care about his cheating.
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