Workplace Skills Competition
I often hear a saying, "Don't spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain".
It means that the object you have to guess is a gentleman, and the realm is different from yours. Don't use your little caution and careful thinking to guess what the gentleman thinks.
That's right.
The gentleman has a noble character, and he is all frank and open. The villain has a despicable character, and he has been a relative for a long time in restlessness. With a despicable heart, to guess the high and noble is not on the same track at all. Even if you guess a little bit, you can't figure it out if you take the style of your relatives. Calculate and calculate all day long, and make yourself even more foggy. With the heart of a villain, the belly of a gentleman is not only not enough, but also not a good one.
This principle, if it is used by self-introspection, no problem. But if others use it to persuade you, then beware.
Since it is to persuade others, it is natural to require others to be of good character and high morality. Ask others to restrain themselves with the requirements of a gentleman; Treat others with the mind of a gentleman. And this "me" who persuades others is often the object of suspicion. For the things that "I" (the gentleman) did, you should not guess with the heart of a villain. If you can't guess it, just admit that little bit of villain's heart.
Standing on the moral high ground and persuading others with righteous words, is this a gentleman or a villain?
In this world, there are gentlemen. They have a noble character, and they really don't have those pickled thoughts in their hearts
But more, maybe it's still the villain,—— little head is full of small patterns and small abacus. When the two sides bump into each other, the latter always habitually uses his own small abacus to pull the former's big rights and wrongs. After some calculations, it is often the gentleman who flees in the wilderness. Regardless of whether the masses who eat melons like to see it or not, this kind of narrow road encounter, the most low wins.
In the workplace, this is even more so.
Therefore, don't spend the belly of a villain with the heart of a gentleman. As mentioned earlier, there are gentlemen in this world, but more of them are still villains. The probability that we encounter in the workplace is still the latter. Even if we don't define it first, whether the person in front of us is a gentleman or a villain, then at least, don't treat him as a gentleman. Then, treat him the way you would a gentleman. Before he was so familiar, he was busy confessing.
Many people in the workplace feel frustrated, hurt, and disappointed at work, and complain about how people's hearts are so complicated, and they often fall behind at this point. Under the mustard tree, he said mercilessly, the cat and dog on the other side have not seen clearly, and they have opened a piece of their sincerity, isn't it self-inflicted?
——In the workplace, it is irresponsible to live the belly of a villain with the heart of a gentleman and to one's own work.
Not only that, but don't accept someone who gives you a "gentleman" high hat.
This is not to lift you up, but to roast you on the fire. - You're a gentleman, so don't care about this little profit. You're a gentleman, so make the scene look good......In this way, how can you come up with an abacus and take into account the gains and losses?
Even from a moral point of view, people in the workplace should seek benefits within the framework of rules. If no one gets any benefit from a job, it is immoral. A lot of manpower and material resources were consumed in vain, and nothing was caught in the end, isn't it a huge waste for you? In the workplace, such "no matter the cost" is not welcome.
People in the workplace don't need to use such a "gentleman's heart" to live the belly of a real villain.
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