The still water is deep, and people go far and steadily. For a tree to grow tall and lush, it needs to dig its roots deeper into the ground.
If people want to achieve great things, they also need to continue to accumulate, precipitate and sublimate, so as to achieve a breakthrough from quantitative change to qualitative change.
As said in "Caigen Tan": "Sitting alone at night and watching the heart, you can know your delusion and reveal your true nature, and you will get a great opportunity every time." ”
We must learn to precipitate ourselves, sort out the knowledge we have learned, the things we have experienced, the accumulated experience and the ideas formed, and shape a high-level thinking mode, so that we can seize more and greater opportunities in life.
Thick accumulation can be thin, and stability can be far-reaching.
Learn to be aloneSolitude is the beginning of self-precipitation. Perhaps everyone has felt at some point that even though they can talk to anyone, they still feel unhappy inside.
Each of us is lonely, and this loneliness cannot be eliminated, and you may not think so, but the truth is often that as soon as you solve one loneliness, the next loneliness will follow.
As Schopenhauer said, "It is only when a man is alone that he can be fully himself." ”
Rousseau completed Walden when he was alone. When he decided to live alone in the mountains and forests, he resolutely gave up everything in the big city.
Armed with an axe, he built himself a small log cabin by the lake, and then lived in seclusion for two years.
These two years were probably the most tranquil and comfortable period of Rousseau's life, and when a person lived his own life in his own way, his mind was undoubtedly free.
During Thoreau's days of seclusion at Walden, he was often asked with all sorts of confusion: "It must be lonely to live alone, right?" Especially on a snowy day, you will be desperate to see others, right? ”
However, Thoreau never paid attention to such questions because he knew that he could be his true self when he was alone. The peace of mind that comes with this solitude, as well as the wonderful experience of feeling comfortable and breathing smoothly, keeps Thoreau calm and open-minded.
Jiang Xunsuo: "Loneliness makes people panic, but loneliness is fulfilling, and loneliness is the beginning of a fulfilling life." ”
Only when a person learns to enjoy solitude can he continue to precipitate himself in life.
Through the continuous growth of knowledge, we have a wealth of life experiences and spiritual insights.
Learn to be independentIn fact, only truly independent people can calm down, endure pain, and endure hardships in the face of any difficulties and uncertainties in life.
Tao Te Ching says: "Tranquility is better than restlessness, cold is better than heat, and tranquility is the right thing in the world." ”
In the second half of life, you should be able to enjoy a quiet life at any time, have a quiet time, and take control of your life. There is no doubt that a person's mind matures because they have been alone and thinking for a long time, constantly summing up experience.
And if a person wants to accumulate resources and enhance his strength when he is alone, gradually get closer to his goal, and realize his ideals, he needs to sublimate solitude into independence.
Only when we are truly independent can we come up with a pattern and vision and achieve victory with action.
Similarly, after a person becomes independent, his heart is often in a calm, sober, and indifferent state of quiet.
Tao Te Ching, Chapter 25 says: "Lonely, independent and unchanging, and walking around without dying, you can be the mother of the world." ”
The road is simple, independent and unchanging, only by constantly cultivating oneself and starting again and again, can we approach the goal step by step, move towards success, and realize the ideal.
You must know that to be a person and do things, the mountains will fall, and everyone will run.
Only when you are determined not to be dependent on anyone anymore and no longer have unrealistic expectations of anything can you accept the reality and then move towards independence with your own efforts and struggles.
When you appreciate the "beauty" of independence, you will take the initiative to create more "delicious" life, and you will be willing to create your own wonderful life.
Your own way, your own way, your own life, your own way, so that the road will be wider and wider.
Precipitate yourselfOnly when a person learns to be alone and achieve independence can he truly precipitate himself and achieve himself.
Zhuangzi has a saying: "To be alone is to be unique." The only one is the most noble. "Be patient, be alone, be determined, and move towards independence.
Understand that a good life needs to be created with your hands and feet.
To be alone is not to be unsociable, but to know when to be social and when to be independent.
Sometimes, only when you really know how to precipitate yourself, you will not lose the direction of life.
Time will tell us that on the road of life, sometimes it seems that people come and go, but in fact, only you are moving forward. Others may accompany us for a while, but in the end, we still have to rely on ourselves to move forward independently, and constantly self-precipitate, in order to walk steadily, go far, and make every step meaningful.
Sanmao once said: "We are unwilling to explore our own value, we attach too much importance to the participation of others in our own lives, so loneliness is no longer beautiful, we lose others, we are confused." ”
I hope you can find yourself as soon as possible, know yourself, enjoy your solitary life willingly, and quietly move towards independence, so as to precipitate yourself and strengthen yourself.
In the end, you can dispel your fears and insecurity, live calmly and confidently, and have your own true and happy life.
Whether it is learning to be alone, moving towards independence or precipitating oneself, it is of great significance to our lives.
Being alone allows us to better understand ourselves, think about life, and move towards independence allows us to have a pattern and vision and succeed with actions. Precipitating ourselves allows us not to lose our way on the road of life and go further and steadily.
To be alone is to be unique. The only one is the most noble. "We need to be patient and determined to be alone and move towards independence.
Time will tell us that in the end, we are the only ones who move forward on the road of life.
We must not rely too much on others, we must explore our own values, enjoy a life of solitude, so as to precipitate ourselves and become strong.