Text: Sister Zeng.
The essence of cold violence is an emotional ** blade that quietly pierces the human heart in silence and alienation. It is not visible or perceived, as is the case with physical violence, but through a series of subtle changes in words, deeds and attitudes, it inflicts invisible torture on the victim.
Just imagine, when you get along with someone, they no longer make eye contact with you, always respond to your words and actions with indifference, and even ignore your status updates on social **.
These are all manifestations of cold violence, they are like an invisible sword that makes you feel the pain of rejection, isolation, and helplessness in silence.
The root of cold violence lies in the neglect and rejection of emotions. It is a covert means of control and is often used to punish the other person or as a way to evade responsibility.
Unlike overt physical violence, this type of emotional abuse is often more difficult to recognize and respond to due to its insidious nature. However, prolonged cold violence can take a serious toll on the mental health of victims. It can cause an individual to fall into deep feelings of self-doubt, anxiety, and hopelessness, and may even lead to depression and other psychological disorders.
Solving the problem of cold violence requires us to start with awareness and understanding. We cannot ignore any form of violence, whether physical or psychological.
We should strive to respect the feelings of others, listen to their voices with our hearts, and truly care about their inner needs. Only in this way can we build healthy, equal and harmonious interpersonal relationships and jointly create a caring and supportive social environment.