Hello, I'm a graduate student, and today our high school homeroom teacher is coming to my current city, and he wants to call all the former students to gather ,..But I don't want to go, because the classmates who are going to go are already working, and they all have good jobs. And I'm still in school. What do you say I should do?
The choice of whether to go or not depends on the truest inclination in your heart - which side? Although I see that you really don't want to go, you seem to be burdened by "not going". If you go, you can't hold your face, what does it mean if you don't go, what will happen? What do you see in your dilemma? I think that whether you go or not, you have to face the "face" of either side.
First of all, you have to trust your own judgment, and what matters is how you really feel about it. Your choice is in line with your individual needs and priorities. To go or not to go is a choice that has nothing to do with other people's opinions. Others have their opinions, but that doesn't mean you need to act according to their expectations.
Second, you need to deal with your anxiety and restlessness. This emotion may be due to your anxiety or stress about the choice to go or not to go. You need to regulate and process this emotion properly so that you can make the right decisions.
Finally, learn to accept your choices. Whether you choose to go or not, you need to accept your decision and take responsibility for your actions. If you choose not to go, you can explain your reason to your homeroom teacher and express your apologies. If you choose to go, you can communicate with your classmates and try to connect with them. Whatever you choose, respect your own decisions and take responsibility for your actions.