Based on my personal experience and opinions, I think the magic operation of this best friend Xiaojuan with the word "Juan" in her name is really breathtaking. When her husband complains about the size of her belly, the change in her image, and his dislike for her, Xiaojuan hits back at her husband in an unexpected way. In order to teach him a lesson that he could not forget, she chose to run away for a period of time. This move makes us wonder how her husband faces the heavy responsibilities that Xiaojuan usually bears on weekdays, such as taking care of the children and taking care of the housework. Xiaojuan's operation is not only a riposte to her husband, but also to allParentingA call from neglected mothers: please care about us and understand us, instead of blindly disliking and blaming.
After Xiaojuan became a mother, her body changed dramatically. She gained weight, her abdomen became bloated, and her image changed dramatically compared to before. But her husband didn't give her enough understanding, but kept complaining and disgusting about her appearance. This makes Xiaojuan feel stressed and confused, and she tries to make her husband rediscover her value and importance.
As a smart mother, Xiaojuan knows that not arguing with her husband is the best choice, because this will only make the problem worse. She decided to show her husband her important role as a mom through her actions. She began to focus on the care of her children and household chores, reducing her personal time. She takes the initiative to take care of the affairs of the family, allowing her husband to focus on work and other things. Although the process is very hard, Xiaojuan always believes that only through her own efforts and dedication can she gain her husband's recognition and respect.
Xiaojuan's husband is increasingly dissatisfied with the size of her belly and the change in her image. He felt that Xiaojuan was becoming more and more like a "yellow-faced woman", completely ignoring her advantages and value. He even compared Xiaojuan with an unmarried female colleague in the company, forcing her to pay more attention to her image and appearance.
Xiaojuan knows that instead of complaining and arguing, it is better to solve problems with real actions. She tried to attract her husband's attention by changing her image, and she wentBeauty salonsDid hairdressing, bought new clothes, and even tried some new onesMakeupSkill. However, these efforts have not yielded significant results. The husband is still not satisfied with her image and continues to express his dissatisfaction and disgust.
In an unexpected incident, Xiaojuan is angered by the embarrassing scene of the child spitting up milk and pooping, and the husband comes home and starts nagging after seeing Xiaojuan's sloppy appearance. Xiaojuan decided to fight back at her husband in an unexpected way. She secretly packed her luggage in the middle of the night, bought a ticket, and left the house.
Xiaojuan's departure messed up everything at home. The husband faced the raising of the children and the heavy housework alone, and felt the pressure and hard work that the mothers usually bear. He finally realized that Xiaojuan's responsibility and dedication as a mother are so huge and important. The husband re-examines his behavior and attitude, and begins to reflect on his incomprehension and disrespect for Xiaojuan.
Xiaojuan's departure made her husband begin to reflect on his past dislike and dissatisfaction with her. He realized that he had never really understood the hard work and dedication of the mothers, and only cared about his own needs and expectations. During the time when Xiaojuan left, he had to face the busyness of raising children and housework alone. He has experienced first-hand the hardships of being a father, and he is also aware of the pressure and hard work that mothers endure.
The husband began to take the initiative to take responsibility for household chores and childcare, he tried to cook, breastfeed, change diapers, and so on. Although he is not good at these things, he is willing to learn and improve from scratch. He began to care more about Xiaojuan's feelings and needs, and respected her choices and decisions. He apologized to Xiaojuan and expressed his deep apologies for her previous dislike and criticism.
Xiaojuan ended her run away and returned home with expectations and hopes for her family. She sees a new husband, who is no longer the man he used to be who only cares about his own needs, but a husband who cares and understands her. Xiaojuan and her husband sat down and had a sincere communication and exchange. They listen to each other and understand each other's feelings, and discuss how to improve and maintain family harmony.
Xiaojuan sincerely expressed her needs and expectations to her husband, and she hoped that her husband would value and respect her efforts and no longer dislike and criticize her. The husband said that he would better care for and take care of Xiaojuan, and jointly assume the responsibilities and obligations of the family. They got to know and get to know each other anew, and built a stronger and more stable family relationship.
In the family, mothers are often incomprehensible and disliked by their husbands, causing them to feel great pressure and confusion. Xiaojuan's divine operation reminds us to a certain extent that as wives and mothers, we must bravely face difficulties and challenges, and use our own efforts and dedication to change family relationships. Although Xiaojuan's approach may be a bit drastic, she makes her husband realize his mistakes by being away from home for a while and has a deeper understanding of the importance of family.
This story teaches us that family is a place where we grow and give together, and that couples should understand, respect, and support each other. As a mom, despite the fact that we areParentingbut also remember to give yourself some care and time. As a father, you should respect and appreciate your mother's hard work and take on family responsibilities together.
I hope this story can bring some inspiration and courage to all mothers in the faceMarriageand family problems, to be able to find solutions and courage. Let's work together to create a warm and harmonious family.