Final wordsWe often say, be your own parents and learn to love yourself.
And that's a good thing indeed. But if we unconsciously internalize the bad attitude of our parents towards us, but we don't realize it, it becomes difficult to love ourselves.
So, there are a lot of people who have this confusion:I really want to be good to myself, but at the same time, I am already lacking love, my inner is lacking, and I can't give it all the time.
In fact, it doesn't matter what you do to love yourself and raise yourself again.
The core attitude of the so-called love and care is the silent and continuous gaze, the complete companionship of patience and sensitivity.
When you have enough patience with yourself, and are willing to give yourself more time and space, start from the little feelings, start from the small progress, one life two, two give birth to three, three give birth to everything. Eventually, we'll tap into our inner thriving resources and weave a new, soft blanket that fits us and helps us weather the winter.
May at the end of the year, we be more tolerant and determined of ourselves, and give ourselves more space for our inner and realistic choices, in which we can experience the power of slow but determined growth.