Final wordsWhen it comes to conversations between family members, I always recall a classic line from "Please Answer 1988":
"Dad, I'm also a first-time father, please be considerate. ”
Every time I think back to the picture of Deshan's father candidly confiding in his daughter, I can't help but burst into tears.
And in the process of creating this comic, I also slowly realized the other side of this sentence:
Parents are not only first-time parents, they have only been children once.
They have also encountered their own "family of origin problems", with their own limitations and shortcomings, but they are hardly mentioned;
Their demands for love and understanding do not disappear because they are suppressed, but are expressed in a way that is acceptable to them.
These limitations will inevitably bring a lot of regrets, and even leave a wound for the child like a knife.
I want you to know that your emotions are real, allowed and accepted.
But I also hope that one day we can turn the knife of limitation into a key and open a new door to an old relationship.
As long as love is not absent, sincerity is still the biggest "nirvana".
Let the love flow.