Hello, I'm Dongyue Yanai.
No matter how cold it is outside, I hope my words can bring warmth to your heart.
Liang Shiqiu wrote in "The Misogyny":
It is common for opposites to attract, and for men and women to be happy.Two people who love each other between men and women are bound to be deeply attracted to each other.
The two will miss each other when they are separated, and the two will involuntarily stick together when they are together.
However, when a man doesn't touch you below, it means that you are no longer attractive to him.
1. Don't touch your emotions
Yaoyao broke up some time ago, and recently packed up her mood and asked us to get together.
She spoke to us about her unhappiness. She said that she is now relieved of her relationship with her ex-boyfriend.
When I was with my ex-boyfriend in the past, there were people who complained about my joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and some people listened to them, what a beautiful existence it was.
But later, she found that her ex-boyfriend was becoming more and more impatient with her.
When she was unhappy, when she complained to her ex-boyfriend, he responded to her coldly.
When she is happy, when she shares it with her ex-boyfriend, he finds her annoying.
After a long time, she realized that there was a reason for all this.
It's because she's no longer loved, so her ex-boyfriend doesn't want to touch her emotional needs.
When a man no longer cares about your emotions, there is no place for you in his heart.
For a man who doesn't love you, it's unrealistic to blindly want to go back in time.
Love is the joint contribution and joint helm of both parties to make it happen.
2. Don't touch your body
Reader Ah Fen left me a message, she said that since the birth of the child, she and her husband have no intimate contact, even kissing.
At first, she thought that her husband was sympathetic to her hard work with the children, and didn't want her to be so tired and let her have more time to rest.
But it's been almost a year, and it's still the same.
By chance, she found that her husband's mobile phone was not turned off, and a message from a woman on the other end of the chat window read, dear, I miss you so much, when will we live in the world of two people again?
At this moment, it was like a bolt from the blue, and she suddenly realized that it was not her husband who sympathized with her and did not touch her body, but that her husband had an extramarital lover.
If there is no intimate contact between husband and wife for a long time, it is an abnormal situation.
There is a saying:
To love someone is to want to possess all of her.For the lover who is in my heart, I can't help but make contact with her, pull a little hand, and kiss.
If a man doesn't touch your body, obviously, there is no other reason than to stay away from you is not in love.
Shen Congwen wrote in "Border City":
I understand that I don't have to say it without my mouth, and I can understand that love doesn't need to be said with my mouth.Love or not, the body will tell you the clear answer. If you look closely, you'll know.
Haruki Murakami once said:
People are slowly moving from childishness and simplicity to maturity, and the process of maturity will inevitably take some detours, endure some hardships, and even love many people wrongly, but the sweetness and pain that have been there have become a part of life.It's not a pity to lose a man who doesn't love you and prove that he doesn't belong to you.
Where there is a loss, there is a gain.
Maybe there is a man who loves you waiting for you on the road ahead, and maybe you will sublimate your life to a higher height.
This is the gift that life has given you. Stride forward, happiness is waiting for you not far away!