The poet Lu You said: "I have seen all the things in the world, and I have never been rich or poor." ”
When people are old, looking back on their lives, wealth is like a passing cloud, and poverty is just an experience. There are very few things that can belong to them.
However, what do people pursue if they live a life and do not pursue wealth?Who doesn't want to live a life of great wealth?
Lao Tzu said, "I have the Three Jewels, hold on to them." One is kindness, the second is thrifty, and the third is not daring to be the first in the world. ”
Following the thinking of the ancients, thinking down, and expanding to the present life, it is not difficult to find that people can pursue wealth, but do not regard houses and gold as wealth. It's too vulgar.
Top wealth is a kind of spiritual outlook, inner wealth and peace, and the foresight of being a person. Generally speaking, if you do the following three things well, people and families will be rich.
A few acres of thin land are left for children and grandchildren to cultivate.
Maybe many people are disdainful of their hometown. After all, if you go to work in other places for a year, your income is five or six times that of farming. If you do a big business, a year's income is worth farming for a lifetime.
But let's not forget that our ancestors, slash-and-burn, perpetuated the family and society. And in the war years, whoever can own the land can live a stable life.
Otherwise, Tao Yuanming's "Peach Blossom Spring" would not have become the yearning of countless people.
Now, we are in an era of peace, but the practice of "returning to the hometown and returning to the roots" is still popular. When people are old, it is not the best choice to return to their hometowns to farm.
And to be prepared for danger in times of peace, once it is difficult to go out, a few acres of thin land can still support a family.
The poet Ai Qing said: "Why do I often have tears in my eyes, because I love this land deeply." ”Because there is a piece of land worthy of our attachment, no matter how far we go, we will not get lost, and sooner or later we will have to return.The poet Yu Guangzhong said: "Homesickness is a low grave, I am outside, and my mother is inside." ”
Many people in the suburbs have lost their land and moved into high-rise buildings. Although they got the money for the demolition, no matter how much money they had, they would spend it. And their children and grandchildren, no longer have the "land of affection", and the way of life has fundamentally changed.
If you still have a few acres of thin land in your family, that is the biggest retreat in life and the starting point of life. This is where the endless wealth lies. The land nourishes not only life, but also a heart with nostalgia.
cherish the ugly wife and be able to run the family in a good way.
In ancient times, there were four beauties. Beauty has always been a topic that people talk about. But if you look closely, you will find that they don't end well, and most of them are other people's pawns.
Shih Tzu was given as a gift to his husband. When the state of Wu was destroyed, Xi Shi also lost its value and was sunk to the bottom of the lake. The whereabouts of Diao Chan and Yang Guifei are also tragic.
The four ugly girls in history all have relatively happy endings in their lives.
Mother-in-law and Zhong Wuyan have the ability to govern the country. My mother-in-law also appeared as a general for a time, conquered the Quartet, and made great contributions to the stability of the overall situation.
Meng Guang and her husband fell in love, lived in seclusion and studied together, leaving an allusion to the case and eyebrows.
Ruan was disgusted by her husband Xu Yun because of her ugly appearance. However, the Ruan family is knowledgeable and knowledgeable, and has rescued the Xu family many times. When her husband Xu Yun was killed by Sima Shi, the king of Jinjing, the Ruan family held up a piece of the family and saved the lives of their two sons.
In contrast, we will understand that husband and wife accompany each other, and they cannot judge people by their appearance.
In my hometown, there is a saying: "Beauty cannot be eaten." "The so-called beautiful and delicious food is just a joke, real life needs firewood, rice, oil and salt.
If there is an average-looking and well-informed person in the family, then the family is destined to be rich. It's the same whether it's a husband or a wife.First, people with average looks will not provoke right and wrong. He knows his weight, so he will not show himself, and he has developed the habit of being a low-key person since he was a child.
Second, people with average looks pay more attention to feelings and avoid the appearance of a third party. Stable love makes the family more harmonious.
Third, people with average appearance, work diligently, do not pick and choose, and do not have the temper of the eldest lady. A good concept of labor is the foundation for a clean and tidy family and to become rich.
No man shall be disguised, and no sea shall be measured. If there is an ugly wife and an ugly husband, wealth can last, and husband and wife can love each other even more.
Hoarding food, keeping the family fed and clothed.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong, the prime minister of Qi State, said: "The three coins are not to be warm, and the food is not to be full. ”To get the world, it is not to occupy the money of the world, but to grasp the truth that "the people take food as the sky".
In order to control the Lu State, the State of Qi ** purchased the clothes of the State of Lu. When the people of Lu gave up planting grain and made clothes, Qi suddenly stopped selling grain to Lu.
Similarly, Qi Guo** purchased Dai Guo's fox skins, which led to Dai Guo's abandonment of farming. Dai Guo had to submit to Qi in order to get food and ensure that people lived and worked in peace and contentment.
As a family, think about it, what to eat? And to ensure that there is food for a lifetime. And then talk about other things. Otherwise, no matter how much money you have, if you don't have anything to eat, it's in vain. In the same way, this kind of truth can be extended to a place and a country.
Now, we no longer worry about eating, but we must keep in mind one sentence - family failure is due to luxury.
You must have a good family style and live a simple life in order to keep your wealth, otherwise it will be a mountain of gold and silver, and it will be eaten up.
The ancients said: "Wealth has no roots, and it comes from diligence." ”
It's not that difficult to get rich. As an ordinary person, an ordinary family, as long as everyone loves to work and knows that diligence and thrift, their dreams will come true in time.
The most important thing is not to make a mistake in the direction of pursuing wealth, if you regard house and money as the ultimate goal, then no matter how hard you work, you will also feel that you are a poor person. lives in Haozai, but lives a life of internal friction.
Hold on to a few acres of thin land, self-sufficient, and steadfast.
Cherish an ugly wife, the husband sings with the wife, and is reliable.
Leave a good family style, more than every year, vision.
May you and I have a rich heart, no worries about food and clothing, and always smile.