Mo Yan said: Be smart, no matter what happens to your relatives, as long as you don't inform you, you will pretend not to know, and don't ask afterwards.
In this complex society, relationships are like an intricate web in which everyone struggles to find their place.
And in this net, there is a special relationship, and that is kinship. Relative, the word may sound like a lot of affection, but in reality, it is often the most headache.
We often hear the words, "Relatives, help each other and support each other." ”
But in reality, kinship is often not so simple.
Sometimes, being too concerned about your relatives' affairs will not only put you in an embarrassing situation, but you may also inadvertently touch the sensitive nerves of others.
Therefore, be smart, no matter what happens to your relatives, as long as you are not informed, you will pretend not to know, and don't ask afterwards.
Why?
Every family has its own privacy and things that don't want people to know.
If you are always trying to meddle in your relative's affairs, always curious about this, asking about that, it is likely to make them feel uncomfortable and even feel that you are violating their privacy.
Remember, respecting the privacy of others is a basic principle of interpersonal communication.
Getting too involved in your relatives' affairs can get you into unnecessary trouble.
Conflicts and disputes between relatives are often complex and subtle. Once you get involved, not only will it be difficult to make a fair judgment, but you may also offend one or both parties and put yourself in a dilemma.
Being too concerned about your relatives can also affect your own life.
Everyone's energy is limited, if you spend a lot of time and energy on dealing with the affairs of relatives, then how can you get enough attention in your own life and work?
Smart people know how to allocate their time and energy to make their lives more balanced.
In addition, there are some things that relatives may not want to make public or want more people to know. If you always get to the bottom of it and try to understand it, you may not only embarrass your relatives, but you may also hurt them.
Sometimes, it's better not to know than to know, and at least, you can keep a calm mind and not be bothered by those complicated relationships.
Therefore, be smart and learn to keep a proper distance. Don't be too curious about your relatives' affairs, and don't make a fuss about nothing.
As long as they don't take the initiative to tell you, just keep a normal heart and do your own thing. If they really need your help, I'm sure they'll come to you on their own initiative.
Remember, keeping a proper distance can make your relationship with your relatives more harmonious and can also make your life more comfortable.
Don't let curiosity drive you to make unintelligent choices, smart people know when to ask and when to shut up.
In this complex society, learning to protect oneself and handle interpersonal relationships intelligently is the survival wisdom that everyone should master.
Don't let other people's things become a burden to you, make your life easier and happier. Be smart, keep an appropriate distance, and make yourself more comfortable.