"There are three things to borrow money, and there are three things to do with courtesy" This sentence is a common saying in traditional Chinese culture, which contains a profound truth. First of all, let's take a look at the meaning of "money has three non-borrowing".
This sentence refers to the need to be cautious when borrowing money, there are three situations where money cannot be lent.
The first is that money lent to greedy people cannot be borrowed, as such people tend to pursue wealth by any means necessary, and may even take advantage of your generosity to gain ill-gotten gains.
The second is that you can't borrow money that you lend to people who don't have integrity, because such people tend to default on their debts and lose their trust, making your money go down the drain.
Next, let's take a look at the meaning of "there are three non-followers". This sentence refers to the need to be cautious when following the ceremony, and there are three situations in which the ceremony should not be followed.
The first is to give gifts to people who are not grateful, because such people tend to forget your kindness and may even use your generosity for their own benefit.
The second is to give gifts to people who have no morality, because such people will often ignore morality for their own selfish interests, and may even use your trust to obtain ill-gotten gains.
The third is to follow the etiquette given to people who are not virtuous, because such people tend to lack moral restraint, misbehave, and are unable to establish true friendship and trust with you.
To sum up, the phrase "there are three things not to borrow money, and there are three things to do not follow courtesy" warns us to be cautious in terms of money and etiquette, to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and to avoid associating with bad people.
At the same time, we should also establish good interpersonal relationships based on integrity, gratitude and morality, and promote the harmonious development of society.