What can most destroy a relationship? It's not time, it's not distance, it's the person you love, a casual word. Two people who are not related by blood hug each other for warmth, relying on "you love me" and "I love you", but this love is different from the love between relatives after all.
Blood is a wonderful thing, no matter how bad you are, no matter how willful, no matter how unreasonable you are, your family will still accept you with the broadest mind, but the lover is different, love is worn away, and there is nothing.
The most heart-wrenching thing is not that you lied to me, but that when I found out that you had done something to hurt me and questioned you, you didn't even bother to explain, but threw me a sentence directly: If you want to think like this, then I can't help it.
A person, sad for you, shed tears for you, must be because of some of your actions, make him feel sad, maybe you were unintentional, as long as a little explanation, you can resolve the misunderstanding between the two, but you don't bother to say anything, drop such a hurtful word. It seems to be a fluttering sentence, but it will make the person who listens to it fall into endless cranky thoughts and chills.
In marriage, men always seem to feel that women who don't go to work are "idle" at home and are enjoying happiness. But the three meals a day at home do not come out of thin air, the floor, dishes and chopsticks, and dirty and smelly clothes are not cleaned by themselves, and the family's food, clothing, housing, and trivial chores are not solved by someone with a wave of their hands. Your sentence: Aren't you just doing a chore? It might have disappointed her in an instant.
These are all women who work hard and serve their families, day after day, all year round. But as a result, it is often said lightly by men, "Aren't you just doing housework?" What woman doesn't do housework? "Denying everything.
Men should understand that housewives are the most complicated, longest-working, and unpaid jobs in society. But for the sake of marriage and family, they silently paid and sacrificed, just in exchange for a warm home and a lover who cherished them.
We are always used to leaving the good for outsiders, but always showing the worst of ourselves to our lovers. relied on the other party's love to act recklessly, and in the end both sides lost. No one is born to be considerate of others, we all grow up from an imperfect person.
When you stab your lover in your own words, have you ever wondered if they can withstand your attack? Don't let the light in his heart go out, don't let the door in his heart close. Because, the people who can be hurt by you are the people who love you the most.