Dear parents and parents, have you ever been like me, I don't know when you start to feel that your children are like a different person, become disobedient and don't like to talk to yourself, often contradict, disobedient, love to talk back, sometimes for a pimple on the face can be studied in front of the mirror for more than an hour, in the face of these abnormal behaviors of children, I believe that many parents often feel a little overwhelmed like me. In fact, these behaviors are a normal manifestation of a child's adolescence.
Adolescence is the most important period in a child's growth and the most headache for parents. During this period, the child's emotions are volatile and his behavior is difficult to figure out. As parents, if we want to help our children get through this period safely, we must understand the psychological changes of our children and detect some signs of adolescence in time. Then adjust the appropriate educational method according to the child's psychology and performance.
So how do you realize that your child has reached puberty?
1. Increased independence
Adolescent children want to get rid of the control of their parents and **, pursue their own ideas and choices, they will have their own ideas and judgments, they are not willing to accept the opinions of others easily, and sometimes they will conflict and resist with their parents or teachers.
2. Mood swings
Due to physiological and psychological changes, adolescent children are easily affected by external stimuli and show moodiness, depression and annoyance, loneliness and depression. They need more care and understanding, as well as proper emotional regulation and release.
3. Be creative and critical
Adolescent children have a strong desire for knowledge and a spirit of exploration, active and keen thinking, and are able to use abstract logical thinking and hypothetical deductive reasoning to solve problems. They like to engage in rich fantasies and creations, showing unique personalities and styles, and they will also think critically about themselves and the things around them, challenge the views and norms of the world, and form their own worldview and values.
4. Enhancement and contradiction of self-esteem
Adolescent children have strong self-esteem and want others to know and respect them well. But at the same time, they will also have new understandings and evaluations of their bodies, appearance, abilities, gender, life, etc., and sometimes feel confused, inferior, uneasy, anxious, etc.
When you find that your child has these performances, it means that the child has entered puberty, so as parents, we should understand the child, respect the child, communicate with the child equally, and strive to make this time that cannot be repeated become a good memory in the child's life.