"Urging marriage" is a phenomenon that exists in many cultures, especially in societies that value family and tradition. Parents, relatives, and friends may put pressure on you to get married because they are concerned about your future. However, this pressure can sometimes be too intense, or even take some inappropriate or excessive ways to urge marriage.
Here are some common "fancy marriage urging" methods:
Frequent mentions: Frequently bring up the topic of marriage in front of you, or take you to weddings, blind dates, etc., as a way to imply that you should consider getting married.
Emotional offensive: Use words such as "you're old" and "no one wants you anymore" to stimulate you and make you feel anxious and stressed.
Compare and show off: Compare yourself to other friends or relatives who are already married, or show off their children's accomplishments as a way to stimulate your desire to get married.
Arrange a blind date: Forcibly arrange a blind date with a stranger against your will, or even force you to meet without your consent.
Financial pressure: Trying to ** you by implicitly or explicitly stating that if you get married, they will provide financial support or help.
Social isolation: In some extreme cases, you may experience social isolation or ostracism if you refuse to marry.
In the face of these marriage urging methods, it is important to remain calm and rational. Marriage is an important life decision that should be based on one's own wishes and considerations, rather than being pressured from the outside world. If you feel uncomfortable or distressed, you can communicate with family and friends to express your thoughts and feelings and seek their understanding and support. At the same time, it is also possible to seek the help of a professional counselor or counsellor to deal with this stress and anxiety.