In my country's Henan Province, there are five daughters who have reached marriageable age, but they are still single, which is sad for their parents. These five girls are not only good-looking, stable in jobs, but also talented, but their parents are heartbroken about their marriage. They couldn't help but sigh: "How can this be married!" ”
The five girls are Xiaoya, Xiaomei, Xiaofang, Xiaoli and Xiaohua. They are all only daughters in the family and have been pampered by their parents since childhood. They have achieved excellent results in their studies and found good jobs after graduation, but their love lives have not been smooth.
Xiaoya is the first girl to make her parents worried. She is beautiful, has a gentle personality, and is a white-collar worker in a company. Her parents hope that she can find a partner who has a stable job, is responsible, and treats her well. But they find that good men are too hard to find these days. Xiaoya has also been in love several times, but they didn't come to the end for various reasons. Her parents watched her get older and more anxious.
Xiaomei is the second girl who makes her parents worried. She is a teacher, kind, caring, and loved by her students. Her parents hope that she can find a good man who is enterprising and knows how to cherish her. But the emotional road is not smooth, and the boys she has met are not the ones she wants. Her parents are worried that Xiaomei is so demanding that she misses out on the right partner.
Xiaofang is the third daughter who makes her parents worried. She is a doctor, intelligent, independent, and has a strong sense of professionalism. Her parents hope that she can find a boy who knows how to care for her and support her career. But Xiaofang's love life has always been blank, and she puts all her energy into work. Her parents worried that she was so focused on her career that she neglected her love life.
Xiaoli is the fourth girl who makes her parents worried. She is a designer with a unique aesthetic and creativity. Her parents wanted her to find a boy who understood and appreciated her. But Xiaoli's emotional path is not smooth, and the boys she meets can't resonate with her. Her parents feared that she was too demanding to find a suitable match.
Xiaohua is the fifth girl who makes her parents worried. She is a lawyer with a strong sense of justice and logical thinking. Her parents hope that she can find a boy with talent and substance. But Xiaohua's love life has always been difficult, and the boys she meets can't match her. Her parents were worried that she was so demanding that she missed out on the right person.
Each of the five girls demanded more than the other, which made their parents feel pressured. They couldn't help but sigh: "How can this be married!" However, what they don't know is that these five girls are not really too demanding, but they are all waiting for the right person.
In this impetuous society, people's expectations for feelings are getting higher and higher. Many young people are reluctant to compromise, they hope to find the person who really understands and loves themselves in the vast sea of people. The same is true of these five girls, who stick to their principles and bottom line in the process of finding love.
They believe that fate will arrange for the right person to appear in their lives. They are willing to wait, even if it means more patience and time. They believe that as long as they are patient, one day, they will meet the person who makes their hearts flutter.
The parents of these five girls finally understood their thoughts. They realize that marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also a union of two families. So they began to respect the choices of their daughters and no longer forced them to conform to the eyes of the world.
They understand that the key to the happiness of marriage lies in the relationship between two people. If the girls find someone who really understands them and loves them, then their married life will be happy. Even if the girls are temporarily single, they will feel relieved as long as they are happy.
In this era of rapid change, the story of these five girls sends us a positive signal: marriage is not a transaction, but a destination for feelings. It's worth waiting for the right person, not getting married for the sake of getting married.
Let's bless these five girls and wish them to meet the right person as soon as possible and live a happy and fulfilling life. At the same time, it also reminds the majority of young people to cherish every fate around them and bravely pursue their own happiness.
Finally, let us firmly believe that in this world, there is always a person who will make us feel: there are no regrets in this life, and you are enough.