Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Money is to people, like a boat needs oars, and a car needs gasoline.
"Money is a language that any country can understand, and it can be of any use," said Afra Bing. ”How much money a person has in his hands will have a huge impact on his or her growth and development.
Money can also reflect a person's true character and character.
When interacting with people, it is necessary to observe a person's character and know by looking at the "money".
I have a few friends and go on a tour together. The group that signed up, regardless of the meal, everyone found a restaurant and wanted to eat something together.
After Xiao Zhang sat down, he asked how to settle the bill, and I didn't think it would cost a lot of money, so I said, "I'm in for a treat."
Everyone talks about playing and eating evenly, which is the most reasonable.
Originally, Xiao Zhang ordered several particularly expensive dishes, but when he heard that others said that they wanted to be evenly divided, he immediately crossed out all those dishes. When you go out, it's better to eat something light.
Everyone knows that Xiao Zhang usually likes to take advantage and like to spend other people's money. Xiao Zhang's change of food because he wanted to share the money also made everyone see his personality more clearly.
A person, whether he is selfish or not, can be seen from money.
It is the norm for people to interact with each other and invite guests to dinner.
If a person is too stingy, he can only take advantage of it, not eat at all, snobbish, and praise the high and the low. Most of the people who have these habits will also lose people's hearts.
A person with a reliable character will never let others suffer in this matter of money.
Fan Shengmei's father in "Ode to Joy" is seriously ill, and she urgently needs a large amount of money to operate on her father.
Call your relatives and friends, call your boyfriend, and none of them will lend it to her. At this time, I found out that some people are affectionate on the surface, but in fact, they don't care about her at all.
The sisters on the twenty-second floor are really good for her.
Andy didn't just lend her money, but asked her mother to take out the title deed as collateral.
Subsequently, he handed over the real estate certificate to Fan Shengmei, and told her that she was not in a hurry to pay back the money, so there was not too much pressure.
This move maintained Fan Shengmei, made her want to go back to the house, reduced the pressure, and took care of her dignity, which was sincerely for her sake.
Whether a person's character is good or not, you can see it by borrowing money from him.
Tu Lei said: "Money is not the only criterion for testing true love, but it can measure the depth of feelings between each other. ”I really treat you as a friend, I will help you with my heart, lend you money, and don't want you to have a psychological burden. It will also help you find a way, and I really want you to get out of the predicament as soon as possible.
And people who are not willing to help you, when they hear that you are borrowing money, will reject you or even stay away from you.
If you borrow money from someone else, you will know how much credit you have in the other person's heart.
Looking at the way a person spends money, you can see his character.
If a person always lives by borrowing money, then it means that he does not know how to manage his income and expenditure, his ability is too poor, his cultivation is too low, and he lacks self-control.
It's like there is such a type of person in life
People who have no money, but often buy more luxury goods than they can afford, as a way to prove that they are rich.
There is another category of people:
If you like to take advantage of it and spend your own money, you will be cautious and thrifty; Spending other people's money is lavish, without taking into account the feelings of others.
People with poor hearts are stingy with their money, and they value money more than anything else.
People with good cultivation and strong ability maintain independence and have a correct understanding of their own strength.
A person with good character understands that there are many things in this world, which are more important than money. Know how to harness money, not be a slave to it.
Moreover, whatever you want, you will rely on your own ability to fight for it, not by taking, relying on others to give.
The more capable people are, the more they know how to manage their own lives and shape their better self-cultivation and character. In terms of money, I won't take advantage of others, and I won't let myself suffer too much grievance.
I want to have a deep friendship with someone and see how he uses his money. When you have cooperation and intersection with him, how to distribute the benefits can see his character and cultivation.
If a person values money more than anything else, then keep your distance and don't get too close.
If he is measured, understands the rules, is not greedy, and despises the behavior of eating more and taking more, then this person can be handed.
Moreover, if you have a deep friendship with them, you will find that the more cultivated and reliable the person, the less you will suffer and will not make you embarrassed when you spend money.
On the road of life, make more friends with people with good money and quality. If a person's money is good, his character will naturally not be bad.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, who makes a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.