Psychological counseling can't tell fortunes, but it can change lives!
1 Someone asked me to change his life?
Teacher, I bought the harmony and anti-villain stickers, will my boyfriend reconcile with me? "I received a WeChat message, and I was shocked and replied to her:"I'm sorry, I don't know how to tell fortunes. But if you want to change your life, you can come to me. ”
After a morning of work, I put down my phone and was about to take a beautiful nap, when Cha Cha broke in. I was frightened and said a little blamedly, "What are you doing!" Why didn't you even knock on the door, it scared me. ”
Cha Cha snorted and said, "Did you make an appointment to ask you to change your life?" People are looking for you to change your life by name downstairs, saying that you promised to change someone's life. It's scary, and he is still holding a pink life book in his hand, saying that the old fortune teller gave him a batch before, and no one will show it, so I want you to see it. ”
I haven't gotten back to the taste yet, Cha Cha said again: "When will our company sign a contract with the Jade Emperor, and you will also accept the job of changing your life?" Or did you sign with Lord Yama? Why didn't you tell me? ”
I threw a pillow at her head: "What nonsense are you talking about, I'll change my clothes and ask the client to wait for me in the consultation room for 5 minutes." ”
Cha Cha hurriedly said: "No, boss, I still don't confiscate the money?" How much does it cost to change your life? I said with a smile: "I told her fortune before, and the old man didn't care how much he wanted, and you would take as much as she wanted." ”
Pingping is 21 years old, addicted to fortune-telling for a year, and every time she encounters a big or small affair, she has to take up a hexagram, and there is a thick book of fortunes from all walks of life. She said that she had looked for hermits in famous mountains and temples in the motherland and well-known masters on the Internet. In this regard, to say the least, hundreds of thousands have been spent.
I picked up the "book of destiny" she handed me. She is still telling me the origin of each life book, and I probably read it, it is all annotations of the eight characters of the birthday, as well as the good luck of the year or something. There is a proposition book that directly states: "At the age of 31, he made a fortune and had assets of more than 100 million." ”
I looked up from the soft paper and looked closely at the little girl in front of me. I'm only 21 years old, but I'm dressed very strangely. With a ponytail, he wears a glass incense gray bracelet on his left hand, a cinnabar string on his right hand, Guanyin Bodhisattva on his chest, and even his earrings are "Little Buddha".
I asked her, "Do you like wearing this bunch of stuff to yourself?" She was a bit like a frightened deer, her voice and breath were not very stable and said to me: "The master let me bring it", she raised the glass incense ash bracelet in her left hand and said to me: "This is to go to the Lama Temple to beg, the master said to keep safe." ”
I whispered, "It's just a glass bead stuffed with a little dust." ”
She raised the cinnabar in her right hand again and said, "Another master said that this is to ward off evil spirits." Cinnabar wards off evil spirits, so that the little ghost does not disturb me. I asked the master to invite me, and it cost me a thousand dollars! ”
I said, "Cinnabar is poisonous, and this master is more poisonous than cinnabar." ”
The little girl was obviously annoyed by my careless muttering, and her voice raised an octave: "Why do you say that about my master, I really think it is useful, and I am much more at ease!" ”
I didn't answer her words. Instead, he asked something else: "Are there still bodhisattvas, jade, walnuts, beads, stickers, incense stickers, and other objects in the house?" ”
Pingping was surprised and said, "Teacher, will you see things in the air?" I smiled awkwardly and thought: "I know how you were deceived by these hundreds of thousands, and you can help others think of it if you haven't thought about it." ”
In order not to continue to stimulate her young mind, I changed my tone and asked her, "Do you believe in fate?" Pingping nodded without hesitation: "Letter!" I feel that life controls everyone, and no one can struggle out. ”
I asked, "What do you think life contains?" Pingping was stunned for a moment, then wrenched her fingers and said: "Including what kind of family you were born in, whether your parents have a background, whether they can bless their children and grandchildren, including whether you have disasters, blessings, or money." It also includes whether you can meet nobles, and whether you will be plotted by villains. ”
I said, "Since you have come to me to change your life, I will tell you something else." It's not like what you know, are you ready? ”
I watched as Pinkie's pupils dilated, and she was clearly expectant and scared. After 2 seconds, he nodded heavily: "Ready!" ”
I said unhurriedly: "Everyone has a lever in their hands, and this lever is life-changing." The lever is pryed to **, and the direction of life is in**. People may be born unequal, but this leverage can be leveraged to unfold this inequality. The better it is, the greater the range of prying. ”
Pinkie was thoughtful, but she didn't seem to understand, and asked me, "What's my leverage?" I have no connections, no family background, and no money. ”
I smiled: "If we can see the sun every day, we will not regard the sun as a resource, and if we can breathe air every day, we will not think that air is a resource." If you take it for granted, you won't use it. ”
Pingping said: "Leverage can't there be a foundation to be leveraged?" I don't have anything, what leverage do I have? ”
I told her word by word lest she hear clearly: "Use your time as leverage." ”
Pingping said, "I don't understand. ”
I explained, "Time is available to everyone, so no one uses it as a resource. The reason why people have to work hard and not work hard is because the person who works hard has insight into his resources. Time is a resource. The gap between you and others is in time. That is, there is only a time difference between people. Some people are successful at the age of 30, and some people are unknown at the age of 60. What's the difference?
You'd say it's hard work. That's not true. The difference lies in the use of resources. A person can work hard without fear of giving no reward, because he knows that he is leveraging his resources.
Let me put it simply: A and B are classmates, and during the winter vacation, B went back to his hometown for the New Year, eating, drinking and having fun with his friends, and spent 1,000 yuan. Thinking that it was finally a holiday, everything is inferior, only entertainment is high. His time is leveraged on entertainment. The return is to be cool and finished, and how to start school.
B didn't go home, he rented a study room for a month, and stayed from the dormitory to the study room every day. Learn how to overtake in corners, how to make money, and how to overtake your peers. It cost 700 bucks. His time was leveraged in his head. He put all the resources he could on his own brain upgrades. The reward is fulfillment and direction.
When A and B meet again, the flesh is still the same body, and the soul is angry and brushes to 20, the other is still factory configuration. They continue to brag together that they rely on relationships and parents to go into society, and they are fools who work hard. Guo Degang said that in the face of opportunities, talent is shit.
Guo Degang just didn't tell you: "One minute on stage, ten years off the stage." "He himself leveraged himself with the resource of time. He told you that everything is providence and everything is fate, but he didn't tell you that God had already put the lever in everyone's hands. It's up to you how you use it. ”
Pingping seemed to understand something, and asked me: "Teacher, what you said about changing my life, is it just using my time to pry into what I want, as long as the time is long enough, I can change my life?" But my mind is empty, I don't have ideas, I don't know how to pry, I don't know how to spend my time, what to do? ”
I said, "Then study, learning is slow and difficult, but a large amount of knowledge will help your brain upgrade system, let you get out of the past cognition, when you look at these fortune tellers, you will think that they are something, and dare to come out to deceive people?" ”
Pingping was a little moved after hearing this, and asked me, "Then can I get what I want?" Do I want my boyfriend to get back together with me? I smiled and said, "This is what you think now, that is, your desires, and through the in-depth study of the relationship between the sexes, your thoughts may change later."
The premise is that you allow different thoughts to enter your brain and give your brain more basis for judgment. You can't just allow metaphysics to go in, not allow others, so that your brain is bound by you, it can't receive new knowledge, it will take metaphysics as the standard, if metaphysics doesn't work, you continue to change masters, resulting in your life actually has been going around in the circle of fortune telling. ”
Pingping said: "Teacher, you are right, I have spent so many years indulging in fortune-telling, thinking that I have spied on the mystery of fate, but in fact, I don't know how to do it at all. I don't know what the master said that I was able to make a fortune at the age of 31 and have assets of more than 100 million because of what I did. I won't use my time either, I'll just wait, I thought that as long as I waited until I was 31, I would be transferred. I'm scared when I think about it now, what if I don't wait? ”
I smiled and gave her back: "Go to the assistant, let psychology enter your brain first, and break these limited cognitions out of your head." Then make a life plan and follow the scientific method to achieve your ideal step by step. Don't believe in fortune telling anymore, Pu Yi was still crazy divination when the Qing Dynasty was about to end, and the hexagram kept saying that he could turn things around, but he didn't reverse it until he died. You're still young, stop your losses in time, it's not too late. ”
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