"During this time, I always felt very irritable and always had the urge to break up. ”
I feel that there is no spark between us anymore, is it that he has long stopped loving me? ”
For the first three days after the breakup, I didn't want to talk to him. ”
I feel sad when I think about the time we spent together. ”
These words were said by friend Ah Qing after the breakup. Because in the first few days after the breakup, she always didn't sleep well and was always cranky. Later, she came up with a solution, which was to read love guides on the Internet.
Through the love guide on the Internet, Ah Qing finally decided to break up with her boyfriend.
In the first three days after the breakup, Ah Qing has been reading the content about "breakup" in the love guide. She thought the content was very useful, so she followed the method above.
Delete all the ***s.
If you've ever been through a breakup, then I'm sure you'll understand that when we really get to the point of breaking up, we don't want to break up because we don't want to continue to suffer.
But how can we get ourselves out of this pain as quickly as possible?
The answer is very simple, that is, delete all the *** No matter what happened between you, as long as you delete all the ***, then all the memories between you will be gone.
You must be wondering, why delete all the ***? Don't you want him to know you exist?
The answer is simple, because doing so will make you forget what happened between you. Moreover, after deleting all the ***, your heart will not hurt so much.
If you can do that, then I'm sure you'll find it that breaking up with him isn't a particularly painful thing to do.
Now that it's over between you, there's no need to go any further. Whether you delete him or not, *** is over between you.
Don't contact him again.
The love guide says: "For the first three days after the breakup, try not to contact the other person again, if you want to contact him, then make excuses, such as: I am going to meet a friend, can you wait for me for a while?" ”
A-Qing did what the love guide said, and she kept texting each other.
At first, the other party would reply, and then he ignored A-Qing anymore.
In this way, after a week, Ah Qing suddenly found that he had no contact with the other party.
Until one night, Ah Qing lay alone in bed and couldn't sleep. She felt particularly wronged. Because for the rest of the week, she had been thinking about each other.
Thinking about it, she began to cry. Crying very sadly. After crying for a while, she felt as if she could get better.
So she texted the other party: "Let's break up!" ”
As a result, the other party replied, "Okay." ”
Ah Qing was stunned at that time. Because she didn't know what to do.
Actually, sometimes a breakup isn't a bad thing. If two people really can't stay together anymore, then separate early!
It's good for each other!
Don't pay attention to what he's doing.
The love guide says: "Don't pay attention to any of his dynamics, don't disturb his life." ”
I did the same after my breakup. I don't follow any of his dynamics anymore, and I don't want to talk to him anymore.
When we used to be together, I always wanted him to spend a little more time with me. But now, we've broken up, so I don't think about having him spend a little more time with me.
If one day, we meet again, you don't have to be surprised to find that it is he who has come to you. Because when you don't pay attention to a person's dynamics, that person doesn't matter as much.
Because if a person really loves you, then he must also have a way to let you know.
So in the days after the breakup, we should keep ourselves busy. Only in this way can we forget the pain of the past.
During the time after a breakup, you're busy trying to make yourself better. Only then will you be able to attract more people to your side.