When a person's cognitive potential is large, and the analysis and understanding of support are in the appearance of affairs, socialization itself has many extremely important parts in the person's perspective, and the people he interacts with often have a mixed variety of roles, so that all social interactions have a sympathetic part, that is, the feelings mentioned in this topic.
At this time, the person concerned has the ability and consciousness to separate the roles of the social object, so in the process of almost all social words and deeds, it is inevitably affected by friendship, and it seems to be humane.
In the subconscious of the parties, this kind of confused role cognition has a kind of innocent ideological stamp, that is, as long as it involves human feelings, the social object will not subjectively harm the parties, and will give subjective gains.
This kind of cognition is a common state under cognitive chaos, and its own confidence is very low, but due to the self-interest effect, the person concerned believes that he is kind and trustworthy, and is kind and trustworthy in the eyes of others, and in the course of his opinion, he acquiesces that he will treat others with feelings in this way (and thus acquiesces that others will treat him like this).
But in fact, when the other party needs a cow, and the party really has a cow, the party often will not give the cow to the other party, and his emotional circuit will most likely find a legitimate excuse that cannot be given to the cow.
The other party with feelings is the same when they see that the person needs a cow.
What's even funnier is that if one of the two parties gives a cow with a small probability, driven by the superego's support and sense of morality, then the party who gives the cow will most likely regret it (because it can't get the desired return).
The above analysis is only to show that when the cognitive potential is greater, the so-called feelings and friendships seem to be very important and precious in the mind, in the mouth, and in small things; However, when the truth comes, there is a high probability that these "feelings" will not really become a bond of alliance and long-term mutual assistance, but may drive out the good money with bad money, so that the party that really values feelings (and is really willing to lose huge benefits first) will be killed.
Well, I understand this truth.
We will find that a person who yells about feelings all day long, in fact, there are two possibilities, one is that his emotional feelings and emotional attention are just a kind of personality, not really to be fulfilled; The second is that he is lucky that he has not been kicked into a deep pit.
Therefore, when a person's cognitive elevation (that is, the ideological realm of the topic goes up) to a certain threshold, he will find this situation and see through a lot of the emotional performances that should be performed, and he will not be bothered to respond.
In the same way, the person will discover the true diamond-like friendships, allies, and affections, and passionately embrace this true altruism and alliance.
Because in real life, real friendships, allies, and affection are very valuable, and they are not overshadowed by false emotions. When a person's cognitive potential is high, he is able to discern between real and false emotions and chooses to build deep relationships with those who genuinely treat him.
Such a person will know how to cherish and repay those who give him sincerity, and their interactions with each other are not just superficial feelings, but are based on real trust and understanding. They are willing to give help and support to each other, rather than taking advantage of each other or focusing only on their own interests.
Therefore, when a person's cognition is raised to a certain threshold, he will understand that in social interactions, true friendships, allies, and affection are real and precious, and those false emotions are just a performance, not worth pursuing and investing in. Such a person will cherish those with whom he has truly developed a deep relationship and will treat them with sincerity and candor.
In their eyes, true affection is not just a superficial friendship, but a real and deep emotional bond that supports and enriches each other's lives and makes each other happier and more satisfied. So, they will enthusiastically embrace this true friendship, ally, and family affection, and strive to preserve and develop these relationships so that they become stronger and more durable.