In the field, a sheep spotted a patch of green grass and quickly walked over.
When the other sheep saw this, they rushed up and soon occupied the meadow, and there were wolves watching them, but no sheep found them; There is a better meadow not far away, and no sheep care.
This is what we often call the "law of the herd":People like to conform to the herd and don't have their own opinions.
In fact, the law of life of the flock is not as fragile as we say, and there are some things worthy of our reflection and reference.
A family, like a flock of sheep, meekly leans together, whether rich or not, there is still laughter and happiness.
It is recommended that adults understand the "law of the herd" when getting along with siblings and handle relationships properly.
Children who are treated poorly by their parents often mix better and have the potential to become "head sheep".
As the saying goes: "A flock of geese cannot walk without a leader, and the sheep go out of the circle to see the head sheep." ”Any family wants to be rich and famous in the local area. As a rural family, I also have the desire to fly out of the ravine and become a phoenix. It couldn't be better if a family moved from the countryside to the big city.
Who will lead everyone to develop together? That's where the head sheep comes in.
In the eyes of parents, their favorite children will be deliberately cultivated, so that they can receive the best education and get more family wealth. I hope that he will become a sheep and support the family business.
But the ending, and what the parents think, is often the opposite. Spoiled children, who have taken the wrong path, or become lazy to eat, will not be grateful.
Those children who were mistreated by their parents felt the discomfort of "eccentricity", but as soon as they gritted their teeth, they began to "rely on themselves", and later, they mixed better.
In the TV series "It's All Good", Su Mingyu is a daughter and is treated poorly by her mother. After all, patriarchy is a traditional practice in many places.
was scolded by his mother since he was a child, and when he was admitted to university, Su Mingyu could have gone to Tsinghua University, but he was forced by his mother to revise his volunteer and went to a free normal school.
When she was eighteen years old, Su Mingyu broke off financial relations with her family, and she had to find a way to study by herself.
After years of hard work, she has become a strong woman in society.
Later, my parents were old and my mother passed away. Several brothers and younger brothers are not angry, Su Mingyu helps the family again and again, and the nephews and nieces in the family are also willing to talk to her and help.
So don't resent your parents, don't be jealous of your siblings for being cared for. You are the real leader, more capable and more assertive.Parents will not treat their children absolutely fairly, and the affection of siblings will not be 100% balanced. If you get the least of anything, then you should be glad that you are the first person in the family to come out of the way.
Brothers and sisters live in harmony, and family development is more stable, which is in line with the principle of "the flock moves forward at equal speed".
You observe the habits of the sheep carefully, and although they live in groups, they are not chaotic.
The sheep at the front and the sheep at the back walk the same distance and at the same speed. The sheep in the middle can also maintain the rhythm it should have.
If the flock loses speed and order, it will be torn apart, and the lambs will not be able to take care of it.
For the crowd, if you insist on being friendly with everyone, find your own position, and cooperate with everyone's actions, you can make money peacefully.
We always say, "Home and everything is prosperous." ”
Family harmony requires order. That is, there are house rules in the family.
In the movie "My Brothers and Sisters", five young siblings who lost their parents have to be fostered in different families in order to survive.
Years later, the brother and sister have grown up and started the journey to find their relatives.
Some people have made *** homes, some people drive taxis, some people are sick in bed, and some people have become wicked people. But all the difficulties did not stop the desire to get together.
In the end, the brothers and sisters were reunited, the first led the last, and the latter caught up with the advanced, changing the fate of the big family.
Those who walk very fast, wait, those who walk very slowly, hurry, everyone can walk hand in hand.
When we become adults, the wealth of our brothers and sisters, the pattern of life, etc., will not be exactly the same, but we are still willing to help the richest, and that can lead everyone.
With the help of the power of the group, everyone is a creator and a profiteer. The sibling group is the best group.
There was Adou who couldn't help him at home, so he could only choose to give up to avoid all the "sheep" being dragged down.
I have to say that no matter how big your ability is, you can't bring all the people. Especially those who can't move, those who are not willing to stand up.
People, if you pretend to be asleep, you won't wake up.
A grain of rat droppings ruins a pot of porridge. "For families with many siblings, there should be trade-offs.
In the flock, there are always lonely sheep and sheep without a sense of rules. In the end, such a sheep will most likely encounter a wolf.
In our village, there are three brothers, the eldest runs a furniture store in the city, please the old.
Second, the third child went to help, driving, loading and unloading, assembly, etc.
The third child takes the salary given by the boss, mixes mahjong parlors every day, and then gambles cards. Over time, the third child was reluctant to work, and thought that the boss should give him money.
In desperation, the third child was abandoned by the boss and sent back to his hometown.
People should have a sheep-like character, kind, and gentle, but they must also have a ruthless heart, and don't give kindness to people who are not worthy of help.
Leo Tolstoy once said: "There are two aspects to every man's life: on the one hand, there is the life of the individual, and the more abstract it is, the freer it is; On the other hand, there is the life of a spontaneous community, in which the individual inevitably obeys the predetermined laws for him. ”Individuals and groups are mutually reinforcing, individuals form groups, and groups depend on individuals.
When the group is harmonious, individuals can benefit from it and be lifted up by the group; When the group becomes bad, the individual is dragged down by the group, like stuck in a swamp.
Therefore, smart people, try to be friendly with your siblings and help each other. When the level of the family group is too low to be driven, they dare to walk alone.
In the family, as long as you do your best, gathering and dispersing are fate.