Life requires a sense of ritual.
Zhang Ailing said, "Life needs a sense of ritual, which can arouse our inner self-respect, and also allow us to live every day of our life better and more seriously." ”
When I was a child, the sense of ritual was a meal for my birthday, a new dress for the New Year, and a new pen for the start of school.
After getting married, the sense of ceremony is that he remembers your birthday and gives you a photo album to commemorate love;
It is a rose for Valentine's Day, a word to make you happy, and a delicacy made just for you;
It is the Spring Festival that takes you to see the lantern show and look for the flavor of the New Year;
It was he who remembered your phrase "I want to..."Quietly realize it for you and surprise you.
The Little Prince says, "The sense of ritual is to make a certain day different from other days, to make a certain moment different from other moments." ”
In these rituals, I felt two words: attention.
He values your needs, your joys and sorrows, and provides you with full emotional value.
Let you discover the light in your body, feel that life is bright, everything is lovely, and the world is worth it.
The sense of ritual is not about spending money to buy forms.
I don't know when it comes to the sense of ceremony, it seems to be enough. Money?
Some people even believe that the more money you spend, the more you have a sense of ritual.
Admittedly, some rituals cost money, but every birthday is a cake, a similar gift;
Every year on Valentine's Day, it is a bouquet of roses, a big meal, and after a long time, it will be tasteless.
In my opinion, the sense of ritual is not about spending money to buy forms, but about whether we are more serious and attentive to certain people and certain things.
15 family rituals that don't cost money.
1.Exclusive time, take 1 hour every day to do what you like with your child and experience the beauty of your child's world.
2.A letter to your child every year about your expectations for the future, and what you want to say to your child.
3.Special surprise, with the occasional small surprise under your child's pillow or school bag.
4.Good morning hug, get up every day, say hello to your child and lover, give him a big hug, tell him: Have a good day, it's good to have you!
5.Commemoration**, from now on, take a family photo in the same place at home every other year.
6.Special gestures, create some special gestures that only your family knows, such as shaking your fingers, different gestures to cover your chin represent different codes.
7.Set up a message board in the living room to write what you want to say to your family.
8.Birthday party, the kind that prepares a special birthday party for the family, so that he can always remember it is worth showing off.
9.Traditional festivals, every traditional festival should be taken seriously and decorated with children to create a festive atmosphere and leave good memories.
10.Edit**, edit the interesting things in your growth into a small **saved**, and watch it together as a family.
11.As a parent, let your child have the opportunity to manage his parents and manage the small family.
Cultivate children's life skills.
12.Emotional corner, arrange an emotional corner at home, the family will go to this corner if they are emotional, and then come out when the mood is calm.
13.In the evening, wash your family's feet and soak their feet comfortably.
14.Put down your electronics, concentrate on eating, and communicate with your heart.
15.Family Dinner Day: Set up a large family dinner day and invite elders to join in.
The sense of ritual in life can be done without spending money, and living every day seriously is the best sense of ritual.
Light up Praise and Watching, I wish you a prosperous day and good luck.