Everyone wants everything to go smoothly and everything will be successful in life, but they often overlook some details at important moments. When a person begins to go downhill, it can be seen in the taboos of life.
1. Neglect your health and overdraft your body.
When we are young, we are physically strong, and at this stage, we study hard and work hard to prepare for the time when our health deteriorates in the future.
But now, people are paying attention to physical health while spending like crazy. When short ** was first popular, I was addicted to watching mukbang, and many mukbang were still "working" in the middle of the night. This kind of black and white reversal, against the laws of nature, diet and daily life, the body will definitely send a danger signal at some point.
Health is more important than wealth, and too many people pursue fame and fortune, putting the cart before the horse, until there is a physical problem, and they regret it.
2. There is no goal, go with the flow.
Life without a goal is like a ship without a compass. Too many people live a life of confusion and inaction.
Eat to live, but live not to eat. We have been pursuing self-realization all our lives, but life is long, and the road to success is full of thorns, and we need to complete small goals to achieve big goals.
Set yourself a goal from today and complete it one by one, and you will feel that you have improved again today.
3. Give up growth, and if you don't advance, you will retreat.
You think you've come a long way, but you're just standing still. When people reach middle age, it is especially easy to enter a strange circle. At this stage, there is a little achievement, which can make yourself and your family live well, and often ignore self-growth and follow the step-by-step plan.
And those wise people who live know how to be prepared for danger in times of peace and continue to study and move forward. Success is only the process, not the end, only by continuous learning and growth, can we keep up with the pace of the times and meet the challenges of the future.
4. Lack of assertiveness and blindly follow the trend.
An independent personality is the foundation of an independent life. I heard a joke: one person looked up at the sky, the second person was curious about what he was looking at, and he also looked up, and after a while a bunch of people looked at it and asked, "What is in the sky?"
In a society with pluralistic information and values, people who are assertive and responsible can have their own docks.
5. Neglect the family and love incompetence.
People are busy, busy with work, busy with relationships, busy with money, but neglecting their families. You're charging ahead, but you're distracted by the restlessness of the big rear.
A harmonious family can help us succeed, and the strength of the family comes from mutual support, understanding and tolerance.
Take time to eat, go shopping, watch movies together, even if you are an old husband and wife, you have to light up the dull days. Learning to express love is also empowering yourself, and traveling with your family and taking family photos are all good intimate interactions.
6. Failure to take responsibility and evade responsibility.
A responsible person is not only able to take responsibility for his own destiny, but also bring peace of mind to those around him. In life, we must assume due responsibilities and obligations, whether it is family, work or life.
The first step towards maturity is to be responsible, and evading responsibility is destined to be buried in the sand like an ostrich for the rest of your life.
7. Immerse yourself in work and be poor at communication.
As the saying goes, if you are lazy in your words, you have to work twice as hard to make up for it. In interpersonal communication, good communication skills are the bridge to establish a friendly relationship.
Communication is not just about talking, it's about heart. Being good at communicating and listening to others can help you get more help and support in your workplace and life.
Keep the mind clear, self-denial and prudence. Take care of your body, mind and spirit, and your life will become smoother and smoother.