In today's society, everyone feels very stressed, whether it is study, work, or marriage, we are all playing different rolesWe all have our own pressures.
In terms of study, I really think that today's students, in addition to completing the prescribed courses and studying at school, also run between cram schools every day.
As more subjects increase, they need more and more types of tuition, and they have less and less time for themselves. In addition, there are many students who will use weekends or time outside of study to attend various interest classes, of course, some interest classes may be out of their own, but there are also many because parents, parents like so they let them learn,So it seemsHow could they not be under pressure?
In the past two years, many students have made suicidal actions due to their own study pressure, and they all say that people are not crushed in an instant, but accumulate little things in life, and slowly form a huge pressure in their hearts.
So in many cases, we shouldLearn to relax yourselfDon't tie yourself in because of some big and small things.
Then it should be even more so at work, today's young people will have a lot of pressure in the workplace, and there are a lot of people around them who are better than themselves.
When I am working, I always worry that I will not be able to complete the tasks assigned by my boss on time, or I am worried that I will not be able to do well and will disappoint my bossIn this way, there will be a great burden on the heart.
This kind of burden will make us afraid to rest, and even feel that a moment of relaxation will bring us a heavy sense of guilt, we hope to improve in the work, hope to be appreciated by the boss, so that our future can be bright.
At this time, we not only have to make money to support ourselves, save money to buy a car and a house, but we will also continue to improve ourselves through various ways to make ourselves better and better, and these pressures accumulate more and more in our hearts.
When we swiped a certain ** or saw someone else's circle of friends, it was actually a tourist beauty and a variety of mouth-watering delicaciesWe can't help but feel very envious from the bottom of our hearts.
Envy others for this kind of free and easy life, and at the same time more envy others can see it, in fact, everyone's value is unlimited, there is no absolute right or wrong in everything, we don't have to worry about our mistakes, and we don't have to worry about whether the future life will reach what we expected.
We should live our lives betterSince we can't predict what tomorrow will bring, let's live today well, and we should find ways to relax ourselves in the face of this pressure.
We are human beings, not machines, 10,000 steps back, even machines will have a time to recharge and rest, if we maintain a tense state for 24 hours, then how tiring it should be.
I think the most pressure is in middle age, at this time we are old and young, our bodies are not young or bad, parents are already old, children are growing up day by day, and we need more and more expenses.
In addition to work every day, it should be running in the hospital, and this kind of life may be more experienced by people of that ageAs I get older, there are more and more bonds in my heart
Some people or things that can't be let go of gradually form a pimple in our hearts, and when we deal with this matter, another trouble arises again.
Some people will feel that God is very unfair to him, why do troubles and accidents find them? Why is my life so hard?
At first, it was just emotional irritability, but later on, as more and more things happened and there were more and more troubles waiting to be dealt with, these bad moods would gradually turn into complaints, and these complaints would slowly form pressure in the heart.
If you don't know how to relax yourself, then you are likely to be crushed by these pressures, so no matter how stressful your life is, no matter how much trouble you haveWe should also set aside a little time for ourselvesto recharge yourself for a whileWhen you are fully charged, you will feel full of power.
In fact, there will be a lot of big and small pressures in marriage, all say that the essence of marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and hearing this sentence will discourage many young people.
In their impressions, it seems that marriage is a kind of bondage, which was not the case a long time ago, and the essence of marriage a long time ago was love.
People are the most beautiful when they first know each other, because they love each other, they are willing to form a family with each other, and they are willing to pay for each other unconditionally.
Of course, once there is a problem in the mode of getting along in the marriage, then it will bring invisible pressure to the other party, just like if one party returns late, then the other party will bombard or scold him when he returns home.
There are also many people who will marry in the name of loveto control the other person's behavior and thoughtsTurn on the remote tracking mode in the other person's mobile phone, and even install a needle at home.
It's just to be able to know what the other person is doing all the time, and once these behaviors are made public, they will start to say that it is because they love the other person too much.
But what he didn't know was,This kind of love is really pressure in the other person's heartThis kind of pressure is almost overwhelming the other party.
In addition to these, there are many people who will talk about it all the time in their marriage, some trivial things can be read for several days, and the other party will quarrel with each other because of a small mistake, which will last for a long time, and if this continues, the relationship between the two will break down sooner or later.
So,In marriage, we should also relax ourselvesAt the same time, the other party will also feel extremely relaxed.
In life, we have to learn to relax ourselvesMake yourself happy every day.