Love is the most beautiful existence in this world, it makes people feel sweet, and it also makes people give everything desperately. However, not all love is so beautiful that it is worth following at all costs.
At least in my opinion, if a love lacks these three conditions, it is wise to let go.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "No matter how much you love a man, if he can't give financial support, can't give positive companionship, can't provide emotional value, it's wise to give up." ”
In life, women are always easily carried away by love, even if that man treats you ruthlessly, he refuses to let go, he would rather be hurt to the heart, and then be brutally abandoned, only to hide in the corner and lick his wounds alone.
In love, a woman must stay sober and not be seduced by men's sweet words, a man who really loves you must meet at least these three conditions: financial support, positive companionship, and emotional value.
At the beginning of love, it is always full of poetry and romance, but as time goes by, we gradually find that no matter how beautiful love is, it has to face firewood, rice, oil and salt, and no amount of sweet words can fill the stomach.
The relationship between love and money is not hostile, nor is it measurable by money. However, love without an economic foundation is like a river without a water source, which is difficult to sustain for a long time.
There is a heart-piercing quote on the Internet: Women talk about money with the poor, and talk about feelings with the rich.
Although this passage is full of irony, it is also worth pondering for men. Women are not all so materialistic, but in terms of love and materialism, they give priority to material things.
Talking about material things is said to be hypocritical, and talking about feelings is scolded for being stupid, in fact, it is really not easy for women.
The most affectionate confession is companionship. Affection is not as good as long-term companionship, and love does not need to be said. Life is short, and dawn and spring and autumn are everything. All I want is that warmth and companionship.
In the field of love, companionship is the source of warmth for all the years of life to resist all the hard ** in the world.
Without companionship, people's hearts will be empty and uneasy, and a sense of belonging will not be found. Communication is blocked, and understanding and trust are shaken.
If love is without companionship, life will become lonely and boring, and it will lose warmth and vitality. Therefore, companionship is not only an interpretation of love, but also a color addition to life.
Time flies, true love is like a mountain. Life is just a long journey, and companionship is the most beautiful scenery.
A beautiful love is for the two to join hands with the outside world and face this complex world together, rather than stirring each other's inner peace in a complicated world.
The attraction of men to women is not just wealth or hormones, the attraction of women to men is not only the body or beauty, these superficial things will eventually fade, the most important thing is that the other party can bring you inner peace and peace.
Surrounding yourself with someone who is emotionally stable is like finding a source of energy, and with just a brief conversation, you'll be re-energized and ready to take on the world again.
If you have someone who is emotionally stable and gentle, their presence is more effective than medicine, and it is an invaluable quality that can provide you with continuous emotional support, and it is even more than the power of matter, just a word of comfort, or a look of eyes, can restore you to your original state.
Therefore, if love loses emotional support, the relationship will become superficial and unstable, and it will be difficult to form a deep emotional bond.
As Yishu said in "Xi Bao": "I want a lot of love." If there is no love, then there is a lot of money, and if there are no two, it is good to have health. ”
A woman's requirements for love are not high, they all want to be loved, and only when they have been hurt by love will they choose to use money to fill the emptiness. It is not until you have nothing that you understand that taking care of yourself is the luckiest thing in life.
Love is the sunshine of the heart, illuminating our happiness and joy; Money is the wings of freedom, giving us respect and choice; Companionship is the warmth of the world, weaving the beauty and warmth of life.
However, in a relationship, if these basic elements are missing, letting go may be the wisest choice, because the person he loves will always be himself.
If a man can't even give a minimum of dignity, then a woman should not practice herself and waste all her youth on such a man.
You have to understand that if a man really loves you, he will not let you lose everything. Likes are not the same as love, if you like a flower, you will pluck it. If you love a flower, you will water it.
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "You may be worthless in front of a person. But in front of another person, it is a priceless treasure. Be yourself, love your people, and love you naturally. Remembering one's own value is the truth of human life. ”
In the vast world, every encounter is like a lyrical poem, depicting the texture of fate. Meeting the right person is like finding a soulmate, who cherishes your uniqueness with deep love and holds you gently in the palm of your hand.
And the people who have suffered the wrong thing are like walking into a desolate story, they ignore your efforts and treat you as an inconsequential existence.
You have to understand that only those who really know how to cherish you will deeply realize your value, and only those who are willing to shelter you from the wind and rain will love you as a treasure.
Women always have to understand that no relationship is worth giving up your self-esteem. Those who give you indifference and ignore your value should give up decisively.
When you meet someone who truly values you, you will find that your kindness is cherished, your beauty is appreciated, and your dedication is appreciated.
Remember, each person is unique, with irreproducible qualities and brilliance. When we are brave enough to show our true selves and stick to that unique personality charm, those who truly love us will be proud of us.