This year's holiday is still not early, and there are only seven or eight days left before the Chinese New Year. The fatigue accumulated in a semester really needs to be relieved by rest, but there are many things to do.
It's going to be the New Year, and the house that hasn't been cleaned up well for more than half a year has to be cleaned up?
More or less have to prepare some New Year's goods, and some trivial things also need to be dealt with.
In this way, time often seems a little tight, and anxiety escalates layer by layer.
Coupled with the inexplicable dislike for the New Year, this time has simply become a hurdle, and there is a feeling of "robbery".
This year was originally the same, fortunately, I got used to it, and I was mentally prepared, so come and bear it!
Unexpectedly, as soon as this mentality came out, everything became simpler.
Since there are too many chores to do and the body needs to recuperate, then there is no hurry. Work when you are energetic, rest when you are tired, do not plan, do not arrange, everything goes naturally.
As much as it can do, and how clean it can be.
There is not much to prepare for the New Year, life is simple, and there is little need. If you want to buy something, you can go out, and if you can't remember, you won't go out. Don't force yourself, don't put too high demands on life, everything is based on the principle of not being tired.
Such a low-standard, lenient approach has a good effect. Every day I touch a little bit of cleaning, a few days down is almost the same, although it is obviously a little perfunctory, but the requirements are less, and you can get by.
People are not tired, the spirit is almost slowed down, I read books and write articles in between work, and I made more than 100 dumplings while watching TV last night, and I have gained wave after wave of sense of achievement, and my heart is happy.
I also understand more and more that life is not everywhere in the examination room, there is no need to be harsh on yourself at all times, and a casual little will have unexpected gains.
Just busy or idle, not deliberate, not anxious, everything is not like that?
The anxiety and boredom of the past are gradually gone, the mood is relaxed, and everything is no longer a problem.
In terms of human relations, giving up the psychology of perfection is, there is no need to be entangled.
The interaction between relatives also has their own fate, don't expect too much, there will be no big loss, just grasp the proportion, you don't have to embarrass yourself.
Do what you should do with your heart, don't shirk your responsibilities, don't force what you can't do, and have a clear conscience.
Don't envy the steaming holiday atmosphere of other people's homes, cherish your closest relationship, and just be comfortable with each other.
The necessary care is not stingy, and where you can help others, you will not spare any effort, but you don't have to blame yourself for some momentary powerlessness, let alone fall into inextricable pain because of some unforeseen circumstances.
In life, everyone has their own mission, and even the closest people cannot replace it. Your kindness may not bring good results, but your transgression may bring unpredictable harm.
In the world of life, it is impossible to be without mistakes, do your best. Not pursuing perfection in everything is a sign of maturity. Not being harsh on oneself and others is a wise and rational treatment.
After the Chinese New Year, let go of the burden in your heart, return your own relaxation, and give others a freedom. Make peace with life and shake hands with the world.
If you are relieved, the heavens and the earth are clear.
There is leisure in the busy, and there is relaxation to love yourself.
Go and stay at will, and don't force everything to be good.