Workplace Skills Competition In the Spring Festival of the land of China, the power of the family is like the magic of unveiling the mystery, and a simple family dinner will expose the worlds of difference between the families. Perhaps you have witnessed such a scene at such a party: a family sits around a table, but there is little real heart-to-heart communication, the children are buried in the virtual world of their mobile phones, and they are coping with the long-awaited reunion with dry greetings. At the end of the meal, an indescribable feeling arose - home is a place that can be returned at any time but should not be stayed for a long time.
China, a society woven by blood ties, often hides behind the competition the wrestling of family power. Many people are confined to a small space precisely because they lack the strong support of their families. Without the support of the family, it is almost impossible to gain a foothold in the fierce social competition.
Maybe you will refute, do those famous Dong Yuhui have family protection behind them? However, when you see them being easily pulled off the altar, don't forget that characters like Huo Qigang, the family roots behind them are extremely deep and should not be underestimated.
Society is like a ruthless selection, and only by standing out in this harsh test can we gain the corresponding wealth and status. The "limited game" of fighting alone has long been unable to adapt to this era, and what is needed now is the "infinite game", that is, mobilizing all resources to participate in the competition, of which the power of the family is the most core link.
For example, families in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai have been passed down from generation to generation, including politicians, businessmen and scientific researchers, and they have high-quality resources at their disposal, and they can easily defeat their opponents with only a little effort. In the face of such competition, how can you not rely on the power of the family?
Nowadays, there are two main ways to break through the inherent circle: one is to use the resources of the family and climb up with the help of the power of the family; The second is to start from scratch and gradually build a family.
Those seemingly blessed family backgrounds and resources are not achieved in a day, but accumulated through the efforts of several generations. Every era has its own opportunities and challenges, and only by grasping these opportunities can we lay the foundation for the development of the family.
The growth of a family is like the growth process of bamboo. Bamboo grew only 3 centimeters in four years, but from the fifth year onwards, it grew at an alarming rate, reaching 15 meters in just six weeks. This is because in the first four years, bamboo has extended hundreds of meters of root system in the soil.
If a family wants to have deep roots, there must be a generation that can perceive the opportunities and choose the place with the best resources for development. If we look at the history of these illustrious families, we can always find a common path of development: their ancestors moved here in a certain year, and the family began to flourish ever since.
Taking the Zeng Guofan family as an example, their ancestor Zeng Mengxue chose to settle in Xiangxiang County in the early years of the Qing Dynasty, and after 200 years of development, in the ninth generation, the family finally gave birth to a figure like Zeng Guofan, thus starting the glorious history of the family. In the past 200 years, the Zeng family has not stagnated, but has taken root silently.
Nowadays, the same is true for ordinary people, once the family foundation is firmly established, it is necessary to make full use of the family resources and invest them in the most favorable system to achieve the best interests of the family.
A thriving family often has three distinguishing characteristics: a visionary elder, a middle-aged person who can take on heavy responsibilities, and a young talent with potential. And those families that are not developing well are often like a plate of scattered sand, where the elders lie on the merits of the past, pointing fingers at the younger generations, but are unwilling to give real support and guidance.
On the occasion of the Spring Festival, mature families will discuss New Year's plans and the possibility of cooperation, while those who are not developing well may quarrel over trivial matters. The comparison between the two families, the level of combat effectiveness is clear at a glance.
The world is like a relay race, not a 100-meter sprint. Each of us has to give it our all in our own schedule and do our part, rather than passing the unfinished task to the next generation. Only in this way can we make the greatest contribution to the development of the family.