"Giant baby" is generally used to describe people who have grown up, but are not yet able to take care of themselves.
Such people, who mostly live in wealthy families, have been pampered since childhood, and are overly spoiled by their parents, causing them to be unwilling to face life by themselves.
This word is now mostly used to ridicule, after all, we always call "giant baby", but in reality, such people are rare.
But not seeing it doesn't mean that it doesn't mean that there isn't, a girl named Liu Siqi in Liaoning is a member of the "giant baby".
How "bizarre" is her behavior? At the age of 16, he was fed by others, and he couldn't even dress himself.
doesn't know anything, but she has a soft spot for spending money and squandering hundreds of thousands of dollars a day, which is commonplace for her.
What kind of family does she live in, and why does she develop such a pampered personality?
Now that 5 years have passed, what is her current situation, has she changed her eldest lady's temper?
Today, let's talk about the story of this "giant baby".
In 2001, Liu Siqi was born in a wealthy family in Panjin City, Liaoning Province. **10,000 Fans Incentive Plan
His parents were in business in his early years, and with his own efforts, he saved enough wealth to let Liu Siqi live a life like a young lady.
Growing up in such an environment, Liu Siqi will inevitably have some eldest lady's temper, which is understandable.
After all, what kind of environment you grow up in will create such a character.
But Liu Siqi's eldest lady's temper is even more serious than imagined.
In a blink of an eye, Liu Siqi grew to 16 years old, which is already the age of high school. But at this time, she couldn't even eat by herself.
usually eats, let the second aunt feed, and she herself is playing with her mobile phone.
Usually dressing, my mother is in charge of dressing, and she is only responsible for opening her arms.
In the face of such a life, Liu Siqi not only did not feel guilty, but felt that he deserved it and deserved it.
The reason why Liu Siqi developed such a character is inextricably linked to his mother's education.
In Liu Siqi's mother's opinion, her daughter should be rich, give her the best since she was a child, and spoil her daughter as a little princess.
It was the bottomless doting of his parents that developed Liu Siqi's arrogant character, and even his younger brother did not let go.
Once, her younger brother muttered something in a whisper at home, which was heard by Liu Siqi, and her anger was ignited at once.
Liu Siqi rushed forward and began to push his younger brother.
I thought it was just an ordinary sibling, but I didn't expect it to turn into a fierce fight in the end.
In the end, it was with the mediation of her mother that Liu Siqi quieted down, but she didn't plan to let her brother go like this.
She began to call her father, asking him to stop all of her brother's shopping apps, and looked at him triumphantly.
The younger brother could only stay by his mother's side a little innocently, looking at his sister with sad eyes, as if he was so strange.
It can be seen from this that Liu Siqi is extremely self-conscious, and if something goes wrong, she will not let go of her beloved relatives around her.
But these are nothing, the conflicts between family members, after mediation, will pass.
The most unacceptable thing is that Liu Siqi is extravagant.
Living in a wealthy family since childhood, Liu Siqi has no concept of money at all.
In her mind, money is no different from the wind blowing. In addition to arguing with her brother, her biggest hobby is shopping.
I go in and out of major high-end shopping places every day, and I never look at the things I like, and my father pays for them anyway.
She doesn't know what is good, she only knows that the limited one is the most expensive, and as long as she encounters it, no matter how expensive it is, she will loot it home.
Tens of thousands of yuan of schoolbags, paid without blinking an eye, spending hundreds of thousands of dollars a day on shopping is the norm, and it has become Liu Siqi's daily life.
But if it's just like this, it's okay, Liu Siqi's coquettishness has affected the daily life of the rest of the family.
It can be said that Liu Siqi's willfulness is not all due to his parents, and relatives also have a very large responsibility.
Liu Siqi loves beauty, once she had long hair and wanted to do styling, and her mother helped her contact the most luxurious local barber shop.
But Liu Siqi couldn't see it, she wanted to go to Dalian, 300 kilometers away, because that barber shop was often patronized by celebrities.
Only such a barber shop is worthy of itself.
So she ordered her uncle to drive 300 kilometers to the place immediately, just to go to the celebrity barber shop to get a haircut.
After a trip, a lot of fuel costs, just a haircut cost tens of thousands of yuan, and my uncle even took a day.
It can be seen that the whole family is spoiling Liu Siqi, if not, she would not be so willful.
Finally, Liu Siqi's willfulness couldn't even stand her parents, and after thinking about it again, she decided to send her to "Metamorphosis".
As a result, Liu Siqi's life began to change.
The day before parting, the whole family was helping Liu Siqi pack her luggage, and she sat on the sofa alone, watching her parents clean up.
On a trip, his parents prepared four large suitcases for him, clothes, daily necessities, etc., which were full of them.
Mother even stuffed a rice cooker into her suitcase.
After packing up, the father took out another 20,000 yuan in cash and put it in his daughter's schoolbag as his daughter's pocket money.
With the heavy love of his parents, Liu Siqi came to the countryside, the car stopped on the side of the road, put Liu Siqi down, and left.
It turned out that the village was built on the slope of a hill and there were no roads at all.
The only trail down the mountain was dug up little by little by the rural "dad".
Therefore, if Liu Siqi wants to go to the destination, he needs to climb up by himself.
She had four suitcases in her hand, and after walking for a while, her physical strength reached her limit and she had to ask the staff for help.
But this time she came to experience life, how could the staff help her?
After being rejected, Liu Siqi was so annoyed that he threw his four suitcases halfway up the mountain, and climbed the hillside with only his schoolbag on his back.
At this time, another partner, Huazi, was already waiting on the mountain, and when he saw Liu Siqi coming, he even lit a special cannon.
Seeing Liu Siqi lying on the bed wiltingly, Huazi thought she was hungry, so she went to the commissary and ate a lot of things on credit.
After eating and drinking, the two returned home, and the next day, Huazi also roasted a chicken for Liu Siqi to eat.
When eating, Liu Siqi rarely picked up the food by himself, put it to his mouth and ate it.
It can be seen that she is not unable to take care of herself, but under the pride of her family, she chose a more comfortable lifestyle.
In the afternoon, she began to miss her suitcase, and with the help of the village committee, she finally found it.
But the staff collected all the skin care products, food and money, and only left Liu Siqi with daily necessities.
Seeing that the staff was so "unreasonable", Miss Liu Siqi's temper came up again, and she copied ** from the kitchen, and wanted to do something to the staff.
Fortunately, under the advice of her friends, she still endured.
She felt a little aggrieved, silently shed tears, and felt that life was not easy.
That night, "Mom and Dad" rushed back from out of town and cooked them a sumptuous dinner.
A few friends didn't care whether it was clean or not, and they feasted on it.
After experiencing the difficulties of life, Liu Siqi has also grown a lot, and she began to reflect on what she had done before.
If you stand in the perspective of your parents, can you accept your arrogant self?
Liu Siqi thought for a while, and the answer was naturally no.
On the third day, a few friends discussed and decided to go down the mountain to make money and help "Mom and Dad" subsidize the family.
After going down the mountain, Liu Siqi followed her friends to repair the road and pour cement, although it was hard, she did not cry tired.
At the end of the day's work, they got 100 yuan as promised, and because of their hard work, the boss gave them an extra 50 yuan.
They did not spend this money indiscriminately, but bought a pair of leather shoes for "Dad" as a gift to take care of themselves these days.
Putting on leather shoes, a slight smile appeared on the tired face of "Dad", and he was also pleased with the changes in several people.
Since then, Liu Siqi finally understands how difficult it is to make money, and how excessive what he has done before has been.
Since then, Liu Siqi has completely changed.
The 30-day "transformation" ended quickly, and the friends were picked up by their parents one after another, leaving Liu Siqi alone on the mountain.
She looked down the hill in a daze.
I think that I did so much at the beginning, and when I see my parents again, what kind of mentality should I use to communicate with them?
Can parents forgive themselves for being too excessive?
With apprehension, Liu Siqi waited for his parents and younger brother.
After the relatives met, all the worries turned into thoughts, the family hugged each other and cried, and the parents were also pleased with Liu Siqi's change.
After returning home, Liu Siqi's arrogance disappeared, and was replaced by sensible.
She will no longer lose her temper with her brother, but will take care of her as much as she can like a real sister.
She no longer wastes time and money on luxury goods and makeup, but buys books and starts planning for her future.
"I have lost too many courses before, and now it is too late to make up for it, after all, I am only 16 years old, and my life has just begun! ”
While studying hard, Liu Siqi often thinks of the simple appearance of "Mom and Dad" on the mountain, and often sighs with emotion.
"After people have tasted the sweet and sour, even drinking plain water will feel sweet! ”
After several years of hard work, in 2017, Liu Siqi was successfully admitted to ESMOD Beijing High Fashion Art School.
She used to love luxury, and now she wants to turn her hobby into a career.
After graduating, she wanted to go to France for further study, but her parents were worried that she would not be able to take care of herself if she was far away from home.
Liu Siqi comforted:"Don't worry, I'm not my 16-year-old self! ”
After graduating, Liu Siqi returned to his hometown, signed a contract with a studio, and became a real fashion designer.
In her spare time, she likes to work out, read books, watch celebrity speeches, and occasionally play **, and her life is quite full and comfortable.
Even today, she still remembers her experiences in the mountains.
If it weren't for the bitter words of "Mom and Dad", there would be no Liu Siqi now, I'm afraid she is still the arrogant eldest lady back then.
But the hard life changed her.
Before she experienced it, she didn't know how hard it was to earn money, and she didn't know how hard people would sometimes put in to get a bite to eat.
Therefore, she has no concept of suffering, and naturally she does not know how to control it.
But after the experience, she knew everything.
It can be seen that practice is the teacher of life.
Only when we experience suffering will we compare our hearts with our hearts, respond to others with kindness, and restrain our indulgent self.
This is the most important truth that life on the mountain taught Liu Siqi.