Mr. Yang Jiang said: "When a woman falls in love with a man, it is not out of thin air that she has inexplicably, let alone confirmed her eyes for no reason, but has their fixed underlying logic." ”
Once a boy masters the core password of a woman's fall in love with a man's underlying logic, no matter what the situation is and what kind of girl he meets, he can do it like a fish in water and easily win it.
First of all, boys need to understand that whether a girl will fall in love with you or not depends on the emotional layer. Just like many boys, the real conditions are not bad, but no matter how hard you try, you just can't make a girl feel and make her fall in love with you. On the contrary, those boys whose conditions are generally bad will make girls crazy and infatuated with and never abandon them as if they were being cast.
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The essential reason for this strange phenomenon is that the human brain has two sets of mechanisms, the logical layer and the emotional layer. The logical layer is responsible for our language, logical thinking, and pros and cons, while the emotional layer is responsible for our feelings and perceptions. Deciding whether a woman is in love with you or not is a response made by the emotional layer.
It's like women often tell you that you are a good person, but I have no feelings for you, and that's because you only work on the logical layer and ignore the emotional layer.
In the face of the girl you like, you do everything you can to care about the other party, and you are a car and a gift, which will only trigger the judgment of the other party's logic layer to whether you are good or bad, and the result of this logical judgment cannot affect the emotional layer.
It's like you logically think that fitness and running must be good for your body, and you've always been planning to do so. But whenever the morning alarm goes off and you feel more comfortable lying under the covers, your instinct will choose to stop the alarm and give up running.
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This is because the logical layer of the human brain can only rationalize the emotional layer, and there is no such model as the emotional layer rationalizing the logical layer, which is equivalent to indirectly determining how fragile and pale in front of the emotional level is to please, care and persuade the way to pursue girls at this logical level.
Because the underlying logic of a woman falling in love with a man itself is to trigger a chemical reaction that generates reverse rationalization at the logical level through emotions.
It's like a scumbag with shortcomings, as long as this girl likes it emotionally, she will forcibly find a reason to like this scumbag. Your conditions are not bad, and you take care of the girl in every way, and in the same way, as long as the girl doesn't call you emotionally, you can always find an excuse not to like it, because the emotional thing is so unreasonable!
Attracting this thing is even more cruel and ruthless, just like the girl who makes you think about it and can't sleep at night, she never cares about you at all, let alone pleases you, but you will still love him, love to die and live.
The core reason is that the other person triggers your instinctive affection at the emotional level, which attracts you and makes you feel infatuated.
But the same way around, a woman who weighs 200 pounds and has a pockmarked and ugly face shush you every day, flatters you in all kinds of ways, cares about you, and even runs downstairs in your company to confess to you loudly. But any normal man without any purpose will not fall in love with each other because of this.
Because deciding whether a person falls in love with you or not depends on the emotional layer, not the logical layer.
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Seeing this, I believe that many boys have understood that what can make a girl fall in love with you is to work the emotional level, not the logical level.
Although many boys have already understood and are full of strength, when chasing girls, it feels like hitting cotton as soon as they punch and don't know what to do.
One trick I'm here to teach you is to create a sense of disparity through anticipation and experience.
For example, if you suddenly find that you have lost your wallet, if you remember that it was left at a friend's house, even if you get it back in the end, you will only take it as a small matter.
But if you don't know that you are lost in **, and you are anxious about this matter, suddenly a stranger appears in front of you and returns your wallet, which is your joy and a strong impact of lost and regained, which will make you deeply impressed by this matter and never forget, which is a sense of gap created through expectation and real experience.
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Therefore, chasing girls is the same, what can make girls trigger heartbeat feelings at the emotional level is not the luxuriously decorated restaurant you take girls to; Nor is it a beautiful dish prepared with heart on the table; It's the jokes you occasionally tell on a date, the sudden teasing when chatting with you, the ridicule and jokes that the girl **your**sent to you, and the couple toys that she asked the boss to give you when you were shopping, and bless your sincerity!
These are all created by the unexpected feeling of disparity under the premise of not expecting this precondition, and this is just one of the methods, you can do it yourself according to the actual situation!
As long as the other party has feelings for you on an emotional level, what kind of long-distance relationship problem you are facing now, and the problem that your parents do not agree with, she will take the initiative to solve it by herself.
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But if you do it the other way around, no matter how hard you try, it will be difficult to get the real sense of the other party's heart and like, even if the other party compromises interests at the logical level and chooses to be with you, then it is very likely that you will cast a green oil in the future relationship.
Because you must understand that the underlying logic of a woman falling in love with someone is the result of emotional pulling, not the choice of logical pros and cons.
So, how can you impress girls on an emotional level?Here are some tips:
1.Surprise :
Girls love surprises and the feeling of being valued. You can surprise her on her birthday, anniversary, or other special day, such as a special gift or taking her to a place she's always wanted to visit.
2.Learn to listen:
A girl needs to be listened to, someone needs to understand her feelings and thoughts. You can listen carefully to her voice and pay attention to her expressions and movements when she is talking, so that she can feel that you care and are considerate.
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3.Making Romance:
Girls love romance and the feeling of being pampered. You can create some romantic vibes for her on a date, such as giving her a bouquet of flowers or taking her to a movie.
4.Give attention:
A girl needs to be noticed, someone needs to care about her life and emotions. You can pay more attention to her dynamics at ordinary times, give her some care and greetings, and let her feel that you care and value.
Hopefully, this article can help you catch up with the girl you want!You are also welcome to leave a good method in the comment area, thank you!