With the progress of society and the opening of people's ideas, more and more young people have begun to express their disinterest in marriage, and some even make it clear that they do not want to get married. To some extent, this phenomenon reflects the mentality of the individual in modern society to pursue freedom and independence, but it also raises some thoughts about the value of marriage.
For many young people, there are a variety of reasons why they don't want to get married. Some people may feel that marriage is a bondage that restricts an individual's freedom and independence. They want to maintain the freedom of being single and spend their time and money at will, without being responsible for their significant other. There are also some people who may be skeptical about marriage, worried that their married life will be trivial and boring, and they will lose the romance and passion before marriage. In addition, some young people may feel that they are young and want to explore the world more and pursue their careers, and marriage may seem like a burden for them.
However, marriage, as a traditional social institution, has its value and significance. First of all, marriage is a responsibility and commitment that enables both parties to grow together on the basis of mutual respect and understanding. In marriage, both spouses need to learn to compromise, tolerance, and responsibility, qualities that are very beneficial for personal maturity and growth. Secondly, marriage is also a relationship of mutual support and dependence. In difficult times, there is a significant other who can face and solve problems together, supporting and encouraging each other. This emotional support and companionship strengthens the bond between couples and also contributes to the individual's mental health.
Of course, for young people who don't want to get married, we should also respect their choice. Everyone has their own lifestyle and values, and if they feel that being single is more suitable for them, then it is their right. Society should provide a tolerant environment in which everyone is free to choose their own lifestyle, whether they choose to marry or not to marry.
In conclusion, the phenomenon of children saying that they do not want to marry reflects the mentality of individuals in modern society who pursue freedom and independence. We should respect everyone's choices, while also recognizing the value and significance of marriage as a social institution. For those who wish to remain single, society should provide a tolerant environment; For those who wish to get married, we should also encourage them to be brave in their pursuit of their own happiness.