Extramarital affairs, like a ** shadow, quietly eroded the originally stable marital relationship. However, this is not an untraceable undercurrent, and if we look closely, we can always find those subtle signs. Those sudden**, mysterious text messages, frequent overtime, or sudden changes in lifestyle habits can be clues to an extramarital affair.
1. In the busy city life, there are always some people, both men and women, who have chosen a different path, and that is the labyrinth of extramarital affairs. As a result, their daily routines have become unusual, often leaving early and returning late to avoid the eyes of family and friends, just to meet their lovers in secret.
For men and women who are having an affair, every date is like an adventure, and they must plan it carefully to make sure nothing goes wrong. And among them, women tend to behave more delicately and cautiously. They will come up with all sorts of clever ways to hide from their husbands, such as making up lies, changing their daily schedules, etc. Although these acts are full of deception and betrayal, they are deeply trapped in them and cannot extricate themselves. Women are more likely to be emotionally involved in extramarital affairs and are also more vulnerable to hurt than men. They may neglect family, friends, and work for the sake of their lovers, even at the expense of their dignity and principles. This blind devotion often leaves them to regret it afterwards, but even then, it is difficult for them to learn from it, because the power of love is always irresistible. However, extramarital affairs are a dangerous game for both men and women. It can ruin your family, career, and life. Therefore, we should always keep a clear head, stick to the moral bottom line, and don't let our desires get carried away and go to the point of no return. Only in this way can we have a truly happy life. 
2. In this digital age, mobile phones have become an indispensable part of our lives. It is not only a communication tool, but also an important carrier for us to obtain information, entertainment and social interaction. And once one of the parties in the marriage gets involved in an extramarital affair, the mobile phone often becomes a "secret channel" between them and their lovers.
For both men and women, extramarital affairs are always accompanied by frequent contact with their lovers. This connection is not only a simple exchange of information, but also an interweaving of emotions and a communication of hearts. In such a situation, mobile phones have become their closest companions, and they share their joys, sorrows, and sorrows with their lovers through mobile phones, and pour out their inner secrets and desires. However, because the connection with their lovers has become so close, they have become elusive, and mobile phones have become their most precious "private property". You will find that they hold their phones tightly in their hands at all times and are reluctant to leave them for a moment. They become extremely sensitive and are afraid that you will touch their phone because they are afraid that the secret of the affair will be discovered by you. This change is not only reflected in their behavior, but also in their mentality. They start to become anxious, restless, and constantly worried that their phones will reveal their secrets. They start to become suspicious and wonder if you have found out about their affair. This change in mentality has undoubtedly brought more contradictions and conflicts to their married life. 
3. Therefore, when you find that your partner is starting to become inseparable from the phone, perhaps you should be wary because it may be a sign that they have dabbled in an extramarital affair. The moment I pick up the **, it's like playing a mental game. For people who have had an extramarital affair, the ringing of the ** bell is like the sound of an alarm, which instantly causes them to be nervous and uneasy. Men tend to look for all sorts of excuses to avoid answering calls from that particular number in front of their wives. They may claim that it is an urgent task or an important matter that is inconvenient to communicate in person, so they will leave in a hurry, hide in a hidden corner, and answer carefully**. When faced with this situation, women usually choose a more direct approach. They may not hesitate to hang up on that ** and wait until they're sure you're not around, then look for another chance to call back. In the process, their feelings may be complicated, ranging from guilt and anxiety about the affair to longing and worrying about their lover. This kind of secret answering method undoubtedly exacerbates the mystery and excitement of extramarital affairs. It has become the only channel for them to keep in touch, and every ringing may trigger a heart-shaking shock. And behind all this, there is their betrayal of their marriage and their loss of emotion. In this way, they try to balance their hearts, but unwittingly fall into a deeper vortex. In this mental game, everyone tries to hide their secrets, but they can't completely get rid of the guilt and insecurity in their hearts. An extramarital affair is like a gamble with no winners, and in the end it will only cost them dearly.
In the face of extramarital affairs, we should keep a clear head and look at the problem rationally. Marriage is a harbor built by two people, which needs to be maintained and cherished by both parties. And extramarital affairs are the reef in this harbor, and the slightest carelessness may cause the marriage ship to run aground and sink. Therefore, we should learn to stick to the bottom line in front of ** and protect our marriage.
At the same time, in the face of extramarital affairs, we should also learn to deal with problems calmly. Impulsiveness and anger only complicate the problem and even lead to irreparable consequences. Instead, we should communicate openly and honestly with the other person with a calm mind, look for the root of the problem, and try to find a solution to the problem. Only in this way can we protect our hearts and minds while maintaining the marital relationship.