Love is a mellow glass of wine, which makes two hearts entangled in warmth; If you don't love, it is an indescribable astringency, which makes the temperature of the encounter gradually disappear in the air. Between love and non-love, there are always some subtle expressions, like a candlelight gradually extinguishing in the dark night, not noisy, not publicized, but announcing the end of a story in silence.
The performance of not loving each other is often hidden in the bits and pieces of daily life. That sound"Good morning"It is no longer the tenderness and sweetness of the past, it has become tasteless, like a mechanical response, without temperature and strength. The nickname that was always on our lips was slowly worn away by time, until one day, we found that we could no longer call it, and only a name with a sense of distance was getting farther and farther away.
We ignore each other's smiles and stop looking at the joy or sorrow behind them. There is no inquiry, no sharing, only communication about the weather, work, trivial matters. On the way home, we no longer expect each other's warm hugs, but are each immersed in the world of mobile phone screens.
When love fades, we begin to be less tolerant of each other's shortcomings. The white moonlight in his eyes gradually revealed unsightly acne, and those little faults and tempers began to become harsh. Even we began to use these grievances as a reason for quarrels, no longer accommodating, no longer accommodating, but gradually accumulating impatience and rejection towards each other.
When we don't love each other, we become stingy with our eyes. The eye contact, which once served as a bridge between each other's souls, has now become a sign of avoidance or avoidance. We don't want to go deep into each other's inner world, and we even begin to feel uncomfortable with eye contact, as if each other's eyes are filled with dull dust.
We no longer plan for a common future, dreams of travel, plans for the four seasons together, are quietly shelved. We use our busy work and miscellaneous life to prevaricate those promises that once spent the moon and the sea, and the enthusiasm is like the sea water at low tide, leaving only dry sand and empty echoes.
Not loving is that there is no longer depth in the words of concern. We greet each other's health, but it is no longer that heartfelt concern. When we ask each other about the day, it's just a courtesy to deal with our own responsibilities. Spiritual communication became scarcer and scarcer, and we began to be like two parallel lines, even though they seemed to intersect on the surface, but in reality they never intersected.
When we don't love each other, we may still try to maintain the superficial harmony of the relationship, but in the process of drifting apart, we are constantly looking for new goals and sustenance. Our focus shifts to the effort of work, the joy of friends, and even the virtual world of the web. The endless social activities and lively entertainment and pastime can't hide the emptiness and confusion in my heart about the disappearance of love.
Not loving each other is ultimately a release of your feelings. It teaches us that love is not static, it needs to be nurtured and maintained by both parties. It is precisely because we know how not to love that we cherish the value of the person in front of us more, understand the importance of communication and understanding, and go wider and wider on the road of love.
The ups and downs of the emotional world are always played out quietly, and inadvertently, we may become spectators or protagonists. However, in the struggle and relief of not loving and being unloved, what we have gained is the power of self-growth, and we have also learned how to take care of a precious relationship. Love and non-love are the footnotes of life, allowing us to continue to evolve and move forward in the long river of years.
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