A 64-year-old man, a 62-year-old woman on a blind date, the woman asked to hand in the salary card, but the man did not agree
Duan, 62 years old this year, is a woman with a bumpy fate. When she first got married, she was pregnant and suffered domestic violence from her ex-husband for no reason, just because her husband felt that she was not filial enough to her mother-in-law. This led to Duan being beaten during pregnancy, which caused the relationship between the husband and wife to fall into a whirlpool of quarrels, and even after the birth of the child, Duan still did not get rid of the troubles of domestic violence.
In the unbearable situation, the lactating Duan resolutely decided to leave the family and left the child and the house to her husband. As a result, she was left alone and homeless, so she could only help out in her sister's supermarket and spend the night in the supermarket, a life that lasted until a year ago.
A year ago, Duan tried to get married again, but not long after getting married, she suffered a second domestic violence because of a simple dissuasion. This time, she decisively chose to divorce and ended her second marriage. Duan moved to the house that his sister bought for his mother and started his life again.
When looking for a new mate, Duan told the matchmaker that her requirements were not high, and she only hoped that her future partner would not have a tendency to domestic violence. She highlighted her absolute zero tolerance for domestic violence. After learning about Duan's experience, the matchmaker quickly arranged a 64-year-old man Li for her.
She was dissatisfied with her attire and felt that this Duan didn't seem to be shrewd enough. Next, Duan began to talk about herself, saying that she now goes to the thrift market every day to sell second-hand clothes, and her income in two days is only 26 yuan.
At this time, Li couldn't help but scoff and said bluntly: "Is there anyone still doing this kind of business now?" Even if the old lady sells some flowers or something, she earns more than her. Because he was dissatisfied with Duan in all aspects, Li unceremoniously expressed his disgust to the matchmaker: "I can't get used to her, I'm not shrewd enough, and I'm restless and self-conscious, so forget it." ”
However, it didn't take long for Li to find the matchmaker again, saying that he wanted to see Duan last time again. When I thought about it when I got home, I found that Duan was relaxed and had no burden at all, so I thought maybe I could think about it again.
So, after thinking about it carefully, Li felt that the last time might have been a little hasty, and wanted to get to know Duan more deeply. Under the arrangement of the matchmaker, the two soon met again. As soon as they met, Duan asked Li bluntly why he rejected her last time and came to meet again this time. Li responded: "Such a good person can't miss it." ”
Soon after sitting down, Duan asked a question that she was very concerned about, asking Li if he could hand over his salary card to her for safekeeping if the two were combined.
However, at this time, Li responded that he kept Duan's salary for himself, and the expenses of the two should be shared. He thought that if he handed over his salary card to Duan, he would attract ridicule from his children.
Li then told the matchmaker that as a person over sixty years old, he also had to retain some independent economic power, and was worried that Duan might leave halfway and put him in trouble.
Therefore, he categorically disagreed with the surrender of the salary card. At this time, Duan said that if Li could not agree to hand over the salary card, she needed to consider whether to continue. The blind date scene was at an impasse for a while.
Under the skillful matchmaking of the matchmaker, the two finally reached an agreement: after a period of time, if the relationship is harmonious, and finally there is no distinction between you and me, Li is willing to consider handing over the salary card to Duan.
When it was time for lunch, Li proposed to have lunch here and decided to show off their respective cooking skills together.
However, what is surprising is that as soon as he entered the kitchen, he found that Duan did not even know the most basic skills such as cutting vegetables and stewing rice, and he was completely a kitchen novice.
Despite this, Li believes that no one is perfect and decides to continue dating. The two left a bond with each other**.
One day later, Li asked the matchmaker to go to Duan's house, hoping that she would sort out the items and take them away from his house, and the rest could be packed and sold.
However, Duan searched for a long time and couldn't find a suitable thing to carry. When she was sorting out a pile of clothes, she said that she had become fat, and she couldn't wear a lot of clothes, and she couldn't find a few beautiful ones after looking for a long time.
As soon as the matchmaker saw it, she invited Li and asked him to help choose Duan. However, something unexpected happened, and Li suddenly said, "Forget it, I don't think we're very suitable." ”
He said to the matchmaker: "This Duan can't do anything, he can't speak, he can't sing, he can't chat, he can't do it, so why should I marry her and go home?" ”
He thinks that Duan has problems in all aspects, plus he saw that she can't cook and dress inappropriately before, after careful consideration, Li feels that Duan is not his ideal other half.
So, he did not hesitate to express his position and told Duan bluntly: "We are not suitable, I don't know anything, and you don't know anything, how are we going to live?" ”
Duan was also confused for a while, and was puzzled by this man's capriciousness!
In the end, the blind date between the two ended in failure.
I can't help but think, it seems that Duan Mou is indeed a little lacking, a woman doesn't know how to cook, and she is not good at housework, and the house is still messy, it seems that there is indeed a problem in finding a partner.
However, why is Lee so capricious? The first refusal was forgotten, but it turned out to be changed again, which really hurt Duan's heart.
Friends, who do you think is to blame for the failure of this blind date?