Lao Zhuo is over half a hundred years old, has a complicated background, and has experienced three loves, but he is not bound by the shackles of marriage because of this. On the contrary, he is like a spectator, admiring the love of others, and at the same time looking for his own way of life. He opened a Japanese restaurant and lived a free life, but his sensitive perception of human nature and emotions made him a guide for the emotional difficulties of those around him.
When He Han helped Luo Zijun deal with the real estate issue, Lao Zhuo maintained indirect contact with Luo Zijun through ** and text messages. His gaze keenly penetrated the surface and observed the subtle change in He Han's attitude towards Luo Zijun. The initial dislike turned into a change, and Lao Zhuo sensitively smelled the strangeness.
The relationship between He Han and Luo Zijun has undergone subtle changes, and Lao Zhuo has revealed the complexity of human nature by observing this change. He deeply understands that when one person hates another person to the point of being "ingrained," this feeling does not easily waver. And the change in He Han's attitude towards Luo Zijun made Lao Zhuo realize that He Han may not have hated Luo Zijun so much at first.
In addition, Lao Zhuo's emotional views on He Han and Tang Jing are also very unique. He pointed out that Tang Jing's independence and courage made He Han feel that he was missing some needed emotions. And Luo Zijun's just divorced, with a sense of brokenness, stimulated He Han's desire to protect, and in the ups and downs of this relationship, Tang Jing was deeply confused about He Han's love, as if he was forever missing a sincere feeling in his heart. She often fell into doubts about He Han's sincerity, but rarely realized whether she gave He Han that feeling of "being needed". Perhaps, in the interweaving of feelings, Tang Jing was too focused on her own needs and expectations, but neglected her thoughtfulness and understanding of He Han.
Tang Jing sometimes lamented that she didn't seem to get enough love, but she may not have thought about whether she had taken the initiative to create a space for He Han that could be needed. Sometimes, the relationship is not only waiting for the other party to give, but also taking the initiative to manage and give. Perhaps, Tang Jing can try to pay attention to He Han's inner needs, give him warmth and support, and create a relationship of interdependence rather than one-way dependence.
The ending of He Han and Tang Jing may be a farewell to their feelings, but for Lao Zhuo, this is not only a change in his outlook on life, but also his deep thinking in his relationship. He left the restaurant with an annual income of 6 million yuan and chose to unravel his "love debt", which is not only an individual decision, but also a re-evaluation of the value of feelings.
Lao Zhuo is not just a seemingly calm love master, his choice shows the desire for sincere feelings. He gave He Han a warning when his feelings for Luo Zijun sprouted, expressing his cautious attitude towards feelings. This prudence is not indifference, but a cherishing of feelings and a deep understanding of the complexities of human nature. Emotional matters are not at all controllable, but they can be guided by thoughtfulness and recognition of one's true feelings.
Tang Jing, He Han and Lao Zhuo, the three of them explored each other in the labyrinth of feelings, and each left their own footprints. Tang Jing's remorse and reflection, He Han's choice and relief, and Lao Zhuo's deep thinking and warning together constitute a vivid and real emotional picture. Perhaps, we can also learn from this experience, not only to pay attention to our own needs, but also to know how to care for each other, to create a balanced and healthy relationship. On the road of feelings, in addition to waiting, we must also manage with heart. for the emotion he needs.